More Than Phone Sex

One of my favorite callers and I were speaking the other day about the services a good phone sex domme can bring into the life of someone who has been searching for a way to express their desires and just needs a connection to someone who understands.  As a mistress who has been doing this for more years than I care to tell you, I’m very aware of the relationships we develop on the phone with our callers.  I hate calling my callers “clients” or “customers” because it seems so cold and impersonal.

Rest assured that whether I am beating your balls with a flogger or making you sing “On the goodship lollipop” while you’re dressed in a tutu, I love you all and I respect the relationship we have.  You are a valued person in this world and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.  Your kinks/desires/fetishes, etc. are who you are.

So, when this particular caller shared with me his thoughts on this subject, I asked if I could share his thoughts with you and he gladly agreed.  Please read below:

A Different Point of View

The impact a Domme or Top has on the people who interact with her is something truly remarkable. It goes far, far beyond her passion or expertise with spanking, bondage, CBT, or whatever.

Many of those who seek out a Domme have been ridiculed or marginalized because of their fetishes and their unique needs. Their feelings of self-worth may have been damaged as a result.

A caring Domme enables her visitor to build or rebuild their self-esteem and self-confidence and take those enhanced feelings into the rest of their personal and professional lives.

It’s no different when the Domme is at the other end of a telephone line, as is the case with the LDW Group. The Mistresses I’ve been fortunate enough to connect with here excel because they have the ability to connect with their callers on a personal level.

Contrary to what some may believe, it isn’t about taking advantage of a caller, emotionally, or financially (there are those in the adult industry who have those qualities but at LDW they are quickly weeded out).

And from the caller’s point of view, it’s about much more than physical stimulation. A Domme and her caller build a level of respect and trust. The caller’s self-image is enhanced, their self-confidence grows, with life-changing results.

That’s particularly the case with those dealing with mental-health issues, which can be especially problematic around the holidays. A positive experience with a Domme, be it in person or via the phone, can be a life-changing experience, one that helps their caller or client escape from a very dark place.

 I know that was the case with me and the woman who was responsible for that is someone I still think about. And for Dommes who may read this, you likely have had a positive impact on someone’s life without being aware of it.

But rest assured, a skillful and insightful Domme makes this world we share a better place.

Thank you

I just want to say thank you for allowing me to share this insight with others.  It’s so important at this time of year and ANY time of year to know that you are not alone out there.  You can talk to us.  We are more than just phone sex.