Guided Masturbation
As I’m sure you know, guided masturbation is one of my favorite pastimes. I adore hearing that moan and breathlessness on the other end of the phone line when I’m guiding a man in the self pleasure of his penis. A guided masturbation phone sex session makes me feel as though it is truly my hand and my fingertips manipulating his pulsing member as I tenderly put it through its paces. I know I have achieved nirvana when I am able to make his hands do exactly what mine would, making his hands my own, thereby making his cock my own. It’s such a thrill. Words just can’t describe what a piece of nirvana this is for me. But, recently I started playing around with another portion of guided masturbation: breath control.
Breath Control During Masturbation
Breath control can also be a big part of tantric masturbation. Tantra is all about tuning in to the body and the breath and tuning out the world in order to feel the stimulation at a deeper level and achieve a mind blowing orgasm. Breathing techniques are especially effective during long masturbation sessions that include a lot of edging (getting as close to an orgasm as you can, without actually having an orgasm and stopping). I have a particular pet at the moment who is doing a lot of edging for me, but no cumming. He is in chastity until Valentine’s Day. You can read all about his 30 days of chastity and stroking on his personal blog at Enchantrix Empire. Poor baby. Breath control will work very well for him as the days turn into weeks and he is teasing himself on my behalf, heading toward a requested ruined orgasm. You can practice breath control very easily during masturbation. All you have to do is take deep cleansing breaths while masturbating and concentrate on keeping your breath even and not letting it become shorter or panting. The more you breath deeply, the longer you will be able to masturbate. Try it. I know, you’re asking me, “what’s this ruined orgasm you speak of “? Well, pet, I will leave you wondering til next time.
Ms Tia
Tantra edging is exactly what this pet needs. To concentrate on my breath as I stroke gently and slowly for my Mistress. Timing the downward strokes with each inhale then exhaling on the upward stroke. Listening to Mistress Tia’s voice, be it on a call or audio. This is of great help. Mistress Tia is to be obeyed and tantric edging helps this stroker keep his promised. No cumming yet lots of edging as W/we slowly dance towards a date with ruined orgasm on that special Valentines Day.
Ms Tia…great post. I love how you stated that when you are guiding the mastrubation, telling the stroker exactly how to touch himself, to stroke himself….that you like to imagine it’s your hand doing it. When I first started doing phonesex, back before the internet when we were not able to get on webcam for the mistress…back when it really was just phonesex lol….when I first got on the phone I would tell the mistress that I love to be guided…and that I like to imagine it was her hand doing it to me….I love it when a msitress tells me exactly how she would touch and stroke my cock…each and every stroke….upppppppp, downnnnn, uppppppp downnnnnn, up, down, up, down, twist, rub the head, etc…and then I would lie back close my eyes and listen to her sweet sexy voice as she guide me to sexual ecstasy 🙂
Thank you, PB. I actually do close my eyes and imagine my hand gliding up and down and around a man’s cock when he is on the phone masturbating for me. It makes the call that much more intense and I get a little wet spot in my panties. If he moans for me, it’s even better!