Toys for Your Next Phone Sex Session
I bet you thought I was never coming back, didn’t you? Well, I have to apologize for leaving you hanging so long. My last post covered cock rings and their use in guided masturbation phone sex. In this installment, I would like to cover the toy most known by the nickname, The Fleshlight“. Now, I prefer to call these particular toys masturbation sleeves. My reason for this is that they come in so many styles and colors and forms, but they each act as a sleeve to put over your penis while masturbating. You can simulate a mouth, a vagina, even an ass! It’s amazing all the different types of masturbation sleeves there are available. There is a definite reason that these are the number one selling male masturbation toy in the United States. It’s very simple; they work. They simulate sex better than your hand, they hold lubricant, and you have almost more control with them than you do with a real live human partner. Now, naturally, nothing is ever going to take the place of actual sex. But, these are for masturbation.
Masturbating with a Fleshlight
Whether you spring for the actual Fleshlight or a cheaper model, such as a jelly sleeve, you are in for hours of masturbation enjoyment. Now, I prefer the cheaper jelly sleeve and I’ll tell you why. It affords you the availability to squeeze from outside and to change the amount of pressure you are applying to your penis. So, if you want to feel as though you are being squeezed, you just tighten up on the sleeve. The fleshlight is hard on the outside and doesn’t afford you that added sensation unless you remove it from it’s plastic case. Both are completely washable and will accommodate tons of lube and any size of penis. Also, we can add vibration to the outside of the jelly sleeve easily and create an entirely new sensation.
I really enjoy using a masturbation toy on my partner. I love the feeling of the sleeve and the way I can make it glide up and down the penis so nicely. I love being able to give it a little squeeze now and then, almost simulating my own orgasm. But, the best part is watching my partner’s reaction as I masturbate him with it. The sheer pleasure he gets from my control over his penis with a simple masturbation toy is so fantastic! I can literally control the masturbation and guide you to a mind blowing orgasm with this toy. If you’d like to experience this with me, pick up a masturbation sleeve at your local toy store and dial my digits. We’ll have a great time, I guarantee it!
‘Til next time!
Ms Tia




Mistress Tia,
I can only imagine the sheer bliss that would come from being in a face-to-face session with You. Reading how You skillfully manipulate Your partner with one of these sleeves…I imagine You keep him begging for release for a long, LONG time!
I have the flesh light and would love to have you on me. If it includes you having me in bra/panty/lipstick/my skin girlish soft and smooth smelling girlish with you spraying me in perfume giving me lipstick kisses as well as putting me in dresses/women’s clothes/turtle neck sweaters, yoga pants/heels/ankle boots then yes.
Yes, and a LOOOOONNNNGGGG time, too! I have been known to tease a man for more than just hours, but actual days. I love teasing and guided masturbation!
ohhhhh Peter! That sounds absolutely divine! I adore dressing up boys into sweet sissy girly girls and having my way with them.
Ms. Tia I am going to purchase a masturbation jelly sleeve just as soon as I can. Thank You for this review. I have a few questions regarding the jelly sleeve is I may please:
*Can it be safely used during my stroking/teasing/denial and edging exercises? W/we don’t want any accidents.
*Any thoughts on which lubricant is the best for me to use?
*What color jelly sleeve do You think Your/my cock should be tormented with?
Answers to your questions are as follows, pet:
1. yes, it can be safely used but be very careful. The sensation is extremely similar to vaginal intercourse.
2. I would use a water based lubricant as it is best for the jelly sleeve and the easiest to wash. Oil based will break down the silicone’s natural oils.
3. Pink, of course! Silly pet!