You may have asked yourself many times, what “exactly” is a Domme or Domina? I am a domme, a domina, a mistress. What does she do? She does what she likes, whenever she likes and however she likes. No one dares to tell her what to do. But there are things about your domme or your Mistress that you may not be aware of and I’d like to shed a little light on that particular subject. A sort of indulgence on my part. You may think we don’t feel, you may think we have no heart or no sensitivity. How wrong you are.

We are super sensitive, and so very, very strong.

This is is not a contradiction in terms by any means, no oxymoron, nor is it a mutually exclusive condition.

You need to know this about Dommes. In a word, we are the shit. The absolute power. We can be dream makers, shape shifters, fantasy fulfillers and Goddeses of Pain and Pleasure. If you have never been Dommed, you can have no earthly idea of what you may be missing. You may think you know, but trust me, until you have been taken and nurtured, controlled and loved the way Dommes do it, you don’t know. There is a tenderness in our power. And a strength in our softness.

That we are sensitive should come as no surprise. If you think this makes us weak, you are not thinking, period. Start paying attention, go beyond what you think you know. In a world that penalizes women for being both soft and strong, Dommes balance on the edge of what is expected and what is rewarded. The mere fact we are able to dance in this space between two worlds is beautiful. The fact that we let you dance with us in that dark area of our minds is gracious, to say the least. So the next time you ask, who are you? What do you do? I am a goddess, a true fulfiller of the dark prophecy in your mind.

And don’t forget it, slave boy.