Kinky Thoughts and Observations
Do you ever wonder what goes through a mistress’s mind on a daily basis? We are of the kinkier persuasion, after all. For instance, if I see a man perusing panties in a department store I don’t assume, like most women, that he’s either shopping for a wife or girlfriend. I assume he’s probably shopping for himself and he’s either a crossdresser or a sissy boy.
I love to observe people and I see a lot of kink in the world around me. I went out a few nights ago with some friends and one of the ladies in the group got a bit pissed at her boyfriend for not dancing with her. So, she got up and danced with these two great looking black bulls. You would have thought her boyfriend would have been pissed but it was just the opposite. He was so turned on by the way she was looking at him while she was dancing with these two gorgeous men that he couldn’t get her out of there and home fast enough! Everyone else in our party thought they were going to have a huge fight but I could tell from the look on his face he was going to fuck her silly and think of those two black men fucking her instead. She has no idea he has a cuckold fetish and she probably never will.
Your Sexual Observations
It’s really interesting the things we notice when we’re tuned in to the kink world, isn’t it? What sort of things have you noticed in your day to day life that led you to believe they were kink or fetish related? I would love to hear them.
Now I am curious to see how your girlfriend will respond if you bring that event up to her. Or would you try to subtly put her and her boyfriend into that type of circumstance again “accidental” like, to see what happen, as in another group outing and there just happens to be some other gentleman you might think the boyfriend would like to see her with? I hope I am not out of line there for that comment.
But for me I am not subtle from the pat few times you had me chat and this past week when you graciously let come on and help pass the time. Thanks by the way it was fun, for I was talking to a friend, not a Milady, strange how that works?
But back the commentary. I think Things like that would be lost on me for spying out potential kinkster’s and then observing them. For example if I was with you and Mr. “T”ia ” pity.. Er.. spank the fool”!! I have a good hunch that you would have to nudge me to get me to notice such things, and then I would try to observe and then have fun conversing about it.
It is sort of a funny thing that I notice those nuances in people. I don’t think I would bring it up to her because what happens behind closed doors in someone else’s sex life is not really my business unless they either flat out tell me about it or they call me and want to share. I am always pointing out those things to Mr “T”ia as you put it (love the Mr T reference by the way) because he is like most of the world, blissfully ignorant of the kinks and fetishes in everyday people. For example, if I see a man who loves tattoos and loves being tattooed, I would probably assume he enjoys pain and CBT as well. He might not, but I would think so and I might even venture to ask a few questions in a nonchalant way to discern whether or not my assumptions were true. Bad girl, aren’t I? Such is the life of a femdom.