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BDSM With Household Tools

Since we had so much fun with the previous post, using kitchen tools for BDSM phone sex play, I thought I’d continue on through the rest of the house and see what kind of debauchery we could come up with.  Since the B in BDSM stands for bondage, we will start with some ideas on how to create bondage with things you have around the house.

Bondage Around the House

Plastic wrap is excellent for binding wrists and ankles, just be sure not to wrap it too tight.  Whenever playing any bondage scene, be sure to keep a pair of scissors near by in case you need to free someone in a hurry.  Tie wraps also work well for bondage, but again, be sure not to get them too tight.  I like to use tie wraps to anchor someone to a bedpost if need be.  I can get very creative, making a chain of tie wraps to get the job done.  Pretty and functional!  Regular every day rope works if you don’t have the budget to buy the expensive japanese silk bondage ropes.  Just make sure it’s not scratchy rope, unless you’re into that sort of thing.  Let’s face it, some of us don’t feel comfortable walking into an adult toy store to purchase these things so finding things around the house to tie up our partners with is so much more creative and fun, right?

S is for Sadism

Yes, I am truly a sadist at heart.  I love to be sadistic and come up with creative fun ways to inflict pain on my partner or submissive.  There are so many things around the house that can inflict pain but I’m going to just cover a few of my favorites here.  Rubber bands are lovely for wrapping around the balls or the penis (at the base) and they keep my sub from having an orgasm too quickly.  Don’t get it too tight, just tight enough.  If you don’t have rubber bands, hair elastics work just as well.  For some added fun grab the elastic and stretch it out as far as you can then let go.  SNAP!  I love that sound and I adore the reaction on my sub’s face as well as the moan of pain during a phone sex session. Wooden rulers work well for slapping the balls, also.

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These are just a few ideas on how to incorporate basic household items into your BDSM play.  You don’t need an expensive dungeon or fancy toys like 50 Shades of Gray.  All you need is your phone sex mistress and our imagination.  Let the fun begin!