I asked my chastity pet recently to write an essay about what chastity and being a chastity pet means to him, as well as why it is important to him.  I mainly did this because the poor dear has had not one but TWO accidents during his training and we’ve had to start all over from square one both times.  I’m sure he’ll begin to see the error of his ways soon or he’ll get writers cramp from all the essays.  Either way, I’ll get my point across because I ALWAYS do.  So, I asked him if I could share this essay with my readers and he agreed.  I thought it would be nice to share this with any future chastity slaves or those who might be considering being a chastity pet.  Enjoy.

An Essay from My Chastity Pet

Some of the reasons that my being in a position of chastity is important are that it prevents me from wasting time masturbating and thinking about other women, as i am immediately reminded that i am clearly owned and my concentration turns to You anytime that i begin to think of my (Your) cock.  It reminds me also that in order to even hope for release, i need to please you and obey you as you literally hold the key to any sexual pleasure i might have.  If i obey, which i always want to do, i have the hope of being rewarded.  But if i misbehave, i understand the confines that i am placed in, and it is also a reminder of the work i need to do to improve for You and the error that I need to correct and make amends to You for.   Chastity also strengthens my bond to you this way, because i know you are in care of my cock and you are simply protecting it for your own use, whether for pleasure or play.  The longer that i am locked up, the more sensitive my cock becomes to your touch and the more i crave your attention and mercy.  It is a small torture to wear the tube, but my orgasms will intensify and this greater feeling is directly linked to your control over me and the small pain is worth the great pleasure you will hopefully provide me once i better learn how to prevent edging too far. (My apologies again for that)  Being locked up prevents me from acting on urges that i might have if not locked up, or from doing what another Domme might encourage me to try if my cock was free and i was having a moment of weakness.  So i guess it promotes faithfulness to you in this way.   The chastity also acts as a training tool that makes me obey you too. For example, if i wanted to be defiant, i could skip my training and there would be no repercussions.  As it is though, i am willing to be much more open minded to your suggestions/commands and there is a clear goal that is noticeable and present.  I will volunteer to do practically anything for you.  I am a very willing sub to you, but this also makes me willing to experiment and is exciting for me to participate in doing daily too.  My wearing the cock tube is also a symbol of my submission to you and you are able to tell your friends and the other Empresses of LDW of Your little cock trophy that you keep locked away for when you wish to use it.  This also allows me to feel good that i am a benefit to you and that i am owned.  I want to be a good boy for you and with your training and guidance/control, i feel like i am truly yours.  I also know that being your sub is not defined simply by being in chastity to you, but is one method that you use to train me and may change whenever you feel it is necessary or more convenient for you.  For all of these reasons i am happily locked up and thankful to you for your patience, your generosity, and all that You do for me.  I am proud to be your pet.

Tiaspet

If you are interested in embarking on a chastity journey with me, give me a call.  You will learn much more than simply controlling your masturbation habits or learning not to stroke quite so often.

I love November.  I love watching the leaves change color here in Oregon.  The bright reds and russets and golds just amaze me.  Mother nature is a powerful woman, I’m sure of that.  In fact, she can be quite the femdom this time of year teasing us with her beauty and then throwing in the snow storm from hell to get our attention.  But, the best thing about this time of year is that I get to spend it cuddled up by a warm fire having erotic conversations with the boys I love most.  I sip my hot cider or hot buttered rum and purr in your ear as I hear you breathlessly moan for me.  Makes me all warm and tingly in my naughty parts just thinking about it.

Femdom Fantasies

I’m sure you’ve wondered what it might be like to be taken and owned by a beautiful woman, haven’t you?  To me, the best way for this to happen is a natural and slow progression, ending in complete devotion.  I like to get to know you on a personal level.  I like to know what sort of things really trip your trigger.  It’s a journey of discovery for both of us.  Sometimes, just letting me know a few simple things about you and your fantasies can set my mind racing.  Just as it is in your sex life with a physical partner, so it is with phone sex.  The more you learn about the person you are with and their body responses as well as their thoughts, the better the sex gets.  With phone sex, we have the meeting of two minds.  These two minds (yours and mine) share their thoughts and feelings and their darkest secret desires.  The end result is an explosion of epic proportions if done correctly.  Phone sex lets your imagination take over.  After all, your brain is your largest sex organ.  Over the next few weeks I will give you some examples of this, but for now…let your mind wander.

Kisses,

Tia

I’m sure you’ve probably read the latest information on the Enchantrix Empire, haven’t you?  We’re having a Halloween Party this Sunday, October 30th Live on Cock Radio.  The party starts at 6PM Eastern and I’m lucky enough to be kicking off the festivities.  There will be some contests and naturally some free phone sex minutes as prizes, either by text or by phone.  The Theme is the Rocky Horror Picture Show because after all, we all want to not just dream it, but be it, right?  I’m sure the sissies all enjoy this movie as much as I do but it has a lot of juicy kinky content for everyone.  If you’ve never been to a live showing of Rocky Horror, you must experience it at least once.  Virgins get to act out all sorts of wild fantasies before the fun begins and the kinky fun is the best part.  In fact, a few years ago I took some Rocky Horror virgins to the local showing.  It was so much fun watching two friends of mine lick whipped cream off of each other.  Of course, it was also great foreplay for the evening attractions after the show as well!  HAHAHA

My Halloween Fantasy and YOURS??

I’ve always loved a lot of things about Halloween.  As the comedian Jamie Kennedy observed a few nights ago, it’s the only time of year most women will proudly proclaim they are dressed either slutty or as a slut of some sort.  I suppose Halloween gives us permission to venture into the kinkier side of ourselves.  So, look for that woman in leather at your Halloween Party this weekend, I’m sure you’ll have a fantastic night.  If that’s not your style, maybe a seductive vampiress who takes control of you and drains you of more than just your blood, huh?  I have to admit I’ve been exploring that fantasy a bit lately.  In fact, I’ve put up a few free sexy audios to that effect and there will be one more posted before the weekend.  I’m sure you’re getting hard thinking about it, aren’t you?  Well, I must admit, it’s the “R” rated version of what I’d like to do.  For a more erotic and explicit version you’ll have to check the Enchantrix Audio Store.  I’ll keep you posted as to when I get it done.

For now,

Kisses, licks, and of course, BITES!

Ms Tia

Yes, big penises are better than small ones.  I have to be honest.  I look at those little penises that are under 6 inches and I can’t help but giggle.  I bet those guys wish they would have eaten their vegetables.  I’m not kidding when I say that.  A lot of studies have shown that not eating your vegetables can have an effect on your penis size.  Although we can’t forget plain old genetics either.  But, just as important as length is girth.  If you have a pencil prick, even if it’s long, it’s still not going to do the job.  I’m not saying I have a gaping hole for a vagina but I do want to at least feel a man when he’s there.  I don’t want to have to ask him that question, “Is it in yet?”

So, if you have a small penis here are a few suggestions of what you can do with it.  First, tell me how small it is so I can laugh hysterically at you.  Second, run right out and buy some panties because any real man knows only shrimp dick losers wear panties and if you are under 6 inches you are a shrimp dick loser.  You might want to get a tattoo on it.  I mean, it’s not going to be anything but an ornament for the rest of your life, right?  You might as well decorate it.  Buy a blow up doll.  Good luck getting her to smile, she won’t feel a thing.

Lastly, if you’re the type of loser who enjoys some degradation for the fact that you have a small cock, give me a call on the humiliation phone sex line.  I need a good laugh from time to time.

Ms Tia

I bet you’re thinking, “Well, wait a minute, an orgasm is an orgasm”.  How wrong you are.  There are types of orgasms and some of them might not even be considered an actual “orgasm”, but more of a release.  I get asked a lot about the difference between a normal regular orgasm, a coerced orgasm, and a ruined orgasm.  So, I thought I’d take a moment and share with you what I’ve learned over the years about these types of orgasms.

Coerced Orgasms

What is a coerced orgasm?  Well, it’s the exact opposite of orgasm denial.  A coerced orgasm comes after that first orgasm.  You are not allowed to stop stroking.  As we all know, most men need a little rest after an orgasm because of the heightened sensitivity that occurs.  This is where the coerced orgasm comes in.  My particular favorite way of coercing an orgasm is to use your own cum as actual lubricant and coerce you into stroking on and on, until you are begging me to let you stop.  Naturally, you will only be allowed to stop when we’re sure your balls are completely dry and empty!

Ruined Orgasms

A ruined orgasm is just exactly what it says it is.  It’s an orgasm that gets ruined.  What that means is, you don’t get to fully enjoy it.  At the exact moment of orgasm, I remove all stimulation.  This leaves you with a pulsating, pumping cock that is spurting cum everywhere and you are stuck with a feeling that you never actually had an orgasm at all!  Your cock has a mind of it’s own, as I’m sure you know.  So, once it is engaged in orgasm there is no going back, no matter how hard you try.  It’s the law of force, you know.  What goes up, must keep going up before it comes down!  HAHAHA.  The sheer frustration a ruined orgasm causes for YOU is so enjoyable for ME!  Yes, I’m a bit sadistic.  But that’s why I’m the mistress.

Til Next Time!

What is it about summer that gets our juices flowing?  Is it the warm air sweeping against our bodies like the caress of a long lost lover?  Is it the fact that we start wearing much less and showing more skin?  Or is it the fact that the days start to lengthen and so do the chances of daydreaming or fantasizing?  I don’t know the answer to this one but I do know I think summer was made for sex.  Sex outdoors, sex in the pool, sex everywhere.  Naturally, that includes hot phone sex.

Erotic Fun with the Ladies of LDW

I had so much fun earlier this evening.  Tuesdays have now become my absolute favorite day of the week.  I get to spend two hours on the radio, playing some great beach tunes and party music and talking to all my wonderful friends, both mistresses and chatters.  But, tonight was special because I also got to spend some time with Mistress Alexandria and her new show, Smooth Jizz.  We had a wonderful time and turned the pool party into a backyard jazz club.  Now, next week Ms Alexandria will of course have her jazz club completely remodeled and she’s even put out an advertisement for a bouncer as well as a few other club duties so be sure to get your resume’ in and grab a great spot in the coolest online adult radio jazz club ever.

Cuckolding Fantasies and Body Worship

I had the opportunity tonight to explore two of my favorite fantasies with some really great guys.  They know who they are so I won’t mention names.  The first fantasy of the evening was a great fun fantasy of my cuckold boy being transformed into the new nanny for his now pregnant wife.  It seems her lover and her had been quite busy and she was expecting the love-child any day now.  It was exciting to me, telling him how my belly was growing with my lover’s seed and how he would now be the wet nurse for my child instead of the unsatisfactory lover and husband he had once been.

The next call was all about the worship of my gorgeous body.  I have to say, body worship is something I completely adore also.  The thought of a man burying his face in every inch of my body and smothering it with kisses and pure adoration makes me wet just thinking about it.  But, I love it when a man seems to almost inhale my essence.  I want to make him drink the perfume of my body and become drunk with desire.  I want to feel his hands and lips on my body for as long as I demand or as long as he can physically keep going.  If it is a test of wills in that respect, I know I will win.  But, the journey through the contest is the best part.

Later babies!

You might think I have plenty of ways to torment you what with the Tuesday night Pool Party adult radio show and the Enchantrix Empire and erotic audios and on and on and on but hey, I’m a diva.  I can never have enough ways to torment you.  So, I decided to put myself back on facebook, in addition to twitter.  I do like facebook as a social network but I love the Enchantrix Empire also.  So, you’ll still see me on both, of course.  If you have a facebook account and you want to follow this dominant diva just click the facebook tag to the left of this page.  It’s that simple.  Also, don’t forget to look for the enchantrix empire on facebook also and LIKE us.  No, not LICK…Like.  Although we don’t object to having certain parts of our lovely bodies licked.  We’ll discuss that later.

A Mistress Party at the Pool!

Wow, you missed a great party last Tuesday night, I have to tell you.  Ms Gemma was there and made ratatoulle and hummus for us.  Empress Alexandria came sauntering in with the top of her bikini missing!  Mistress Claire showed up in an excellent ensemble that had the boys drooling and begging for more.   Mistress Brianna showed up and she was buck naked!  I know I’m forgetting someone and I feel terrible but it was a full room and we had FIVE Mistresses, most of us naked by the end of the party!  Saint oiled our bodies to perfection, Gummy Bear took care of the “hands free” towel duty and later on became the bartender when Mindless drank a pitcher of margaritas and passed out (just kidding).  Seriously, it was a party that could not be beat.  In fact, I’m wondering how in the hell we are planning to top it.  We even had a conga line (imagine the comments there).  So, if you want to rock out this summer and the cool down by the pool, stop by Tuesday night at 8PM Eastern on Cock Radio for a 2 hour pool party which takes place live on the radio as well as in the community kink chat room.  Oh, and don’t forget that Mistress Alexandria’s new show starts this week at 10PM, following the Pool Party.  So stick around for some SMOOTH JIZZ, with Alexandria.  Come be one of the cool kids!

Other Shit, LOL

I’m volunteering my time this summer for some great causes and since I am spreading the love around the community I might not be spreading the love around here as much.  I doubt you’ll notice, to be honest.  But, check the schedule because sometimes I am needed at the last minute and it’s unavoidable.  Summertime is such a wonderful season, I just have to get out and enjoy life and people and especially great causes.  There are a few that are near and dear to my heart so I am thrilled to be able to give back some of my time.  Naturally, I still want very much to be part of your life and your development, no matter what that might mean for you.  So, if your schedule doesn’t seem to mesh with mine, send me an email and request an appointment.  I’m always happy to adjust my schedule for YOU.    Of course, I’m not going to lie, some of the time I’ll spend away will be purely selfish.  I mean, the pool is open and a girl has to have some naughty parties, right?  Either way, you are always on the top of my list, don’t forget that.  *Kisses*
Tia

I can’t believe we are already coming to the end of masturbation month!  It literally stroked right by, didn’t it?  Hopefully, you all took advantage of it and masturbated your little hearts out.  I know some of my favorite stroker boys and orgasm denial sluts had a great time this month.  But, wait, I think if you keep your eyes on the Daily Cock you might find we have some events coming up in June that will make masturbation month look like a prequel.

Cock Radio and the Mistress Interviews

Speaking of which don’t forget that starting next week the weekly Pool Party and annual summer radio bash begins.  That’s right, the Mistress Interviews will be taking a hiatus for the summer and we’ll be partying by the pool live on Cock Radio.  One special difference this time will be the addition of new mistresses invited to stop in each week and visit with us.  So get your lotion and your towels (no, not that kind of lotion) and get ready to sip some margaritas by the pool with me this summer.  As always, the first chatter to get into the radio chat room for the show gets the coveted duty of being my personal oil boy and attendant for the TWO hour show!  That’s right, two hours of heaven by the pool with me, every Tuesday night at 8PM Eastern!

Memorial Day Phone Sex

As for this weekend, I’ll be around all weekend long as Mr Tia has decided to take a fishing vacation with some friends of his, leaving me alone to play, play, play all weekend long.  So, be sure to dial up my number on the phone sex line and play with me!

See you soon!

Ms Tia

Whenever I get a man with a cuckold fantasy on the phone sex line I want so badly to be one of his wife or girlfriend’s closest friends.  Why would I want that, you ask?  Because being her close friend would enable me to convince her to begin the slow torturous humiliation of cuckolding him.  I would tell her how the guys at the gym or nightclub are always checking her out and she’s doing a disservice to them by not at least acknowledging they exist.  Besides, she has told me how inadequate you are and it sounds like you deserve it if she sleeps with someone who can please her.  In fact, I would be willing to bet you even expect her to.  It’s not like you’d ever leave her, you worship her.  After all, she isn’t getting any younger and if she wants to find out what it’s like to fuck a real man she’d better do it while she has the opportunity and the body.  Yes, I would instigate the whole thing.  I would introduce her to some athletic stud who has the stamina and skill that you obviously don’t.    I would even convince her that you actually want to be submissive.  I’d point out to her the way you dutifully do as she says and wait on her hand and foot.  I’d wear her down and soon your slut wife or girlfriend would be staying out all night in a motel room with this fine young stud I introduced her to.  Of course, she’d never know that you were hoping for this all along.  You can thank me later, cucky.