I asked my chastity pet recently to write an essay about what chastity and being a chastity pet means to him, as well as why it is important to him.  I mainly did this because the poor dear has had not one but TWO accidents during his training and we’ve had to start all over from square one both times.  I’m sure he’ll begin to see the error of his ways soon or he’ll get writers cramp from all the essays.  Either way, I’ll get my point across because I ALWAYS do.  So, I asked him if I could share this essay with my readers and he agreed.  I thought it would be nice to share this with any future chastity slaves or those who might be considering being a chastity pet.  Enjoy.

An Essay from My Chastity Pet

Some of the reasons that my being in a position of chastity is important are that it prevents me from wasting time masturbating and thinking about other women, as i am immediately reminded that i am clearly owned and my concentration turns to You anytime that i begin to think of my (Your) cock.  It reminds me also that in order to even hope for release, i need to please you and obey you as you literally hold the key to any sexual pleasure i might have.  If i obey, which i always want to do, i have the hope of being rewarded.  But if i misbehave, i understand the confines that i am placed in, and it is also a reminder of the work i need to do to improve for You and the error that I need to correct and make amends to You for.   Chastity also strengthens my bond to you this way, because i know you are in care of my cock and you are simply protecting it for your own use, whether for pleasure or play.  The longer that i am locked up, the more sensitive my cock becomes to your touch and the more i crave your attention and mercy.  It is a small torture to wear the tube, but my orgasms will intensify and this greater feeling is directly linked to your control over me and the small pain is worth the great pleasure you will hopefully provide me once i better learn how to prevent edging too far. (My apologies again for that)  Being locked up prevents me from acting on urges that i might have if not locked up, or from doing what another Domme might encourage me to try if my cock was free and i was having a moment of weakness.  So i guess it promotes faithfulness to you in this way.   The chastity also acts as a training tool that makes me obey you too. For example, if i wanted to be defiant, i could skip my training and there would be no repercussions.  As it is though, i am willing to be much more open minded to your suggestions/commands and there is a clear goal that is noticeable and present.  I will volunteer to do practically anything for you.  I am a very willing sub to you, but this also makes me willing to experiment and is exciting for me to participate in doing daily too.  My wearing the cock tube is also a symbol of my submission to you and you are able to tell your friends and the other Empresses of LDW of Your little cock trophy that you keep locked away for when you wish to use it.  This also allows me to feel good that i am a benefit to you and that i am owned.  I want to be a good boy for you and with your training and guidance/control, i feel like i am truly yours.  I also know that being your sub is not defined simply by being in chastity to you, but is one method that you use to train me and may change whenever you feel it is necessary or more convenient for you.  For all of these reasons i am happily locked up and thankful to you for your patience, your generosity, and all that You do for me.  I am proud to be your pet.

Tiaspet

If you are interested in embarking on a chastity journey with me, give me a call.  You will learn much more than simply controlling your masturbation habits or learning not to stroke quite so often.

I am, I confess, a cocksucker.  I love giving a great blow job and I pride myself on knowing all the little nuances and signals my lover gives out while I lovingly perform the art of fellatio.  I respond to his moans and movements perfectly.  I listen to his breathing and pay close attention to the areas of his cock and balls that make him pant with desire.  Being a great cocksucker takes practice and I have lots of it.  I sometimes prefer sucking a cock to sex, to be honest.  I know you’re thinking it’s not a very “mistress-like” quality.  But, it truly is.

Being a good cocksucker is a form of control.  I have complete control over whether or not he gets to cum.  I can slow down or speed up and tease him for a very long time.  I control the pace and degree of his pleasure.  I enjoy the fact that he is completely at my mercy.  My mouth is my instrument and I play it like a seasoned artist.  There is so much more to sucking a cock than getting down on your knees and slurping and groping.

With that said, if you long to learn the art of cocksucking we should talk.  I can teach you quite a bit about it and you can become a seasoned and sought after cocksucker.  I can coach your cocksucking dreams into a reality that you never thought possible.

Crossdressers Are Not Always Cocksuckers

Are you a crossdresser?  I adore crossdresssers.  I adore sissies also but crossdressing is quite different because it has some nuances that being a sissy does not and I’d like to point that out.  Most of the time a crossdresser enjoys the feeling of completely dressing up as a woman, from head to toe.  Most crossdressers love makeup and wigs as well as girdles, corsets, panties and stockings.  But, most crossdressers are not gay.  Now, I admit there are a few who will suck cock from time to time but only when dressed in full drag.  The rest of the time they are heterosexual men and they never think of being anything else or having sex with men as part of their dressing up fantasies.  A sissy, however, is a sissy in or out of panties.  Most of the crossdressers I encounter enjoy the thrill of being all made up to look and feel like a woman in every way.  Being passable is the ultimate fantasy and the rush a crossdresser gets from enveloping herself in womens clothing.  A crossdresser becomes my lesbian lover and enjoys it so much when I take her with my strap on.  Most crossdressers want nothing to do with other men unless they are also crossdressers or transgendered.  Now notice I say most.  There are always exceptions to the rules, as in anything.  But, for the most part this is the difference between the two.  Either way, I enjoy both and I have a lot of fun exploring all the different scenarios and fantasies that arise.  I must say, you girls get very creative.  I love that!  Remember, if you are a crossdresser that likes to suck transgendered cock, I’m happy to help you fulfill that fantasy also.

I love November.  I love watching the leaves change color here in Oregon.  The bright reds and russets and golds just amaze me.  Mother nature is a powerful woman, I’m sure of that.  In fact, she can be quite the femdom this time of year teasing us with her beauty and then throwing in the snow storm from hell to get our attention.  But, the best thing about this time of year is that I get to spend it cuddled up by a warm fire having erotic conversations with the boys I love most.  I sip my hot cider or hot buttered rum and purr in your ear as I hear you breathlessly moan for me.  Makes me all warm and tingly in my naughty parts just thinking about it.

Femdom Fantasies

I’m sure you’ve wondered what it might be like to be taken and owned by a beautiful woman, haven’t you?  To me, the best way for this to happen is a natural and slow progression, ending in complete devotion.  I like to get to know you on a personal level.  I like to know what sort of things really trip your trigger.  It’s a journey of discovery for both of us.  Sometimes, just letting me know a few simple things about you and your fantasies can set my mind racing.  Just as it is in your sex life with a physical partner, so it is with phone sex.  The more you learn about the person you are with and their body responses as well as their thoughts, the better the sex gets.  With phone sex, we have the meeting of two minds.  These two minds (yours and mine) share their thoughts and feelings and their darkest secret desires.  The end result is an explosion of epic proportions if done correctly.  Phone sex lets your imagination take over.  After all, your brain is your largest sex organ.  Over the next few weeks I will give you some examples of this, but for now…let your mind wander.

Kisses,

Tia

Yes, I’m a cock tease.  No matter how you put it, that’s what it boils down to.  Do I love wearing short skirts and sexy stockings?  Hell yes.  Do I love wearing a low cut blouse or sweater and bending over to give you a peek at these lovely creamy mounds?  You bet I do.  In fact, I find myself intentionally looking for that bulge that I know will appear in your pants.  But, if you are one of my chastity boys you can only get so hard before that familiar pain creeps up on you.  The one that says your little plastic cage is about to impose its own torture, designed to keep you from getting any harder.  I love seeing that look on your face when that happens.  It makes me laugh out loud.  That’s why I’m a cock tease and a chastity mistress.

Dark Fantasies of Torture and Chastity

With Halloween fast approaching I’ve been thinking of how it would be if your chastity fantasy took a dark turn.  What if you were captured and imprisoned by a beautiful vampiress who fed on you and kept you locked in her dungeon?  What if you were also in chastity but she occasionally used you for her own sexual pleasures?  Well, with that thought in mind, I will be creating an erotic audio and placing it in the audio store this week.  I’m just having trouble with one thing; the title.  What should I call this sexual fantasy of dark torture?  Any ideas would be appreciated.

I’m off to get ready for a charity benefit dinner.  See you all later!

I decided today to tell you about some of my pets.  In particular, it seems the pets I have around the longest are my chastity slaves.  Most likely this is because chastity can be anywhere from a day or two to months and weeks at a time.  Yes, sometimes chastity can be years.  Of course that doesn’t mean that pets don’t get the occasional ruined orgasm or milking.  But, they stay in chastity as long as I want them to and they do what I tell them.  Not all of my chastity pets are kept in chastity devices.  Some chastity boys survive on just a promise, while others require a lock and key.  But, each pet is completely individual and unique.

Chastity Pet Number One

Chastity pet number one has been a pet of mine for about three years now, if not longer.  When this chastity boy came to me he was completely out of control.  He was a chronic masturbator and masturbated at least 2 to 3 times a day.  This boy has a special love of long beautiful legs and stockings as well as a fondness for cock teasing.  Naturally my 5 foot 9 inch frame and long legs as well as m love of cock teasing came in very handy here.  We have gotten to know each other over the years and I have extended his times of chastity a bit longer each time.  We recently completed a 21 week long chastity and I was so proud of him.  I have introduced exercises and stroking assignments for him to complete.  We don’t use a chastity device.  I rely simply on the trust of knowing he will not disappoint me.  He has known the wrath of my displeasure when he disobeys also.  Something I don’t think he’ll ever think to do again, I assure you.  The next goal with this slave is to get him to 26 weeks or 6 months of complete chastity.  I can’t wait to see the outcome.

Chastity Pet Number Two

This slave has been my pet for a short time.  I think it’s been about three weeks now, as a matter of fact.  The first thing I had to determine with him is whether or not a chastity device was necessary.  Since he had a strong penchant for masturbating I did think he needed one and instructed him to purchase it.  He received his device last week and placed it on himself, freezing the key to his lock as I instructed him to.  He is my pet and he states himself as such.  This slave has been given special consideration due to the fact he has a relationship and we work around that.  His complete adoration and willingness to please me is thrilling, I must say.  He has completed his assignments eagerly and begged for more.  I am going to enjoy teasing him and making him beg even further.  His devotion is refreshing and exciting.  Next week I will allow him to remove his chastity device although I haven’t quite decided on a regular orgasm or letting him experience what a ruined orgasm is.  Maybe I should put it to a vote here?  Would you like to leave a comment on what you think he should receive?  Go ahead, I’d love to hear your thoughts on the matter.

Til next time,

Ms Tia

I bet you’re thinking, “Well, wait a minute, an orgasm is an orgasm”.  How wrong you are.  There are types of orgasms and some of them might not even be considered an actual “orgasm”, but more of a release.  I get asked a lot about the difference between a normal regular orgasm, a coerced orgasm, and a ruined orgasm.  So, I thought I’d take a moment and share with you what I’ve learned over the years about these types of orgasms.

Coerced Orgasms

What is a coerced orgasm?  Well, it’s the exact opposite of orgasm denial.  A coerced orgasm comes after that first orgasm.  You are not allowed to stop stroking.  As we all know, most men need a little rest after an orgasm because of the heightened sensitivity that occurs.  This is where the coerced orgasm comes in.  My particular favorite way of coercing an orgasm is to use your own cum as actual lubricant and coerce you into stroking on and on, until you are begging me to let you stop.  Naturally, you will only be allowed to stop when we’re sure your balls are completely dry and empty!

Ruined Orgasms

A ruined orgasm is just exactly what it says it is.  It’s an orgasm that gets ruined.  What that means is, you don’t get to fully enjoy it.  At the exact moment of orgasm, I remove all stimulation.  This leaves you with a pulsating, pumping cock that is spurting cum everywhere and you are stuck with a feeling that you never actually had an orgasm at all!  Your cock has a mind of it’s own, as I’m sure you know.  So, once it is engaged in orgasm there is no going back, no matter how hard you try.  It’s the law of force, you know.  What goes up, must keep going up before it comes down!  HAHAHA.  The sheer frustration a ruined orgasm causes for YOU is so enjoyable for ME!  Yes, I’m a bit sadistic.  But that’s why I’m the mistress.

Til Next Time!

You might think I have plenty of ways to torment you what with the Tuesday night Pool Party adult radio show and the Enchantrix Empire and erotic audios and on and on and on but hey, I’m a diva.  I can never have enough ways to torment you.  So, I decided to put myself back on facebook, in addition to twitter.  I do like facebook as a social network but I love the Enchantrix Empire also.  So, you’ll still see me on both, of course.  If you have a facebook account and you want to follow this dominant diva just click the facebook tag to the left of this page.  It’s that simple.  Also, don’t forget to look for the enchantrix empire on facebook also and LIKE us.  No, not LICK…Like.  Although we don’t object to having certain parts of our lovely bodies licked.  We’ll discuss that later.

A Mistress Party at the Pool!

Wow, you missed a great party last Tuesday night, I have to tell you.  Ms Gemma was there and made ratatoulle and hummus for us.  Empress Alexandria came sauntering in with the top of her bikini missing!  Mistress Claire showed up in an excellent ensemble that had the boys drooling and begging for more.   Mistress Brianna showed up and she was buck naked!  I know I’m forgetting someone and I feel terrible but it was a full room and we had FIVE Mistresses, most of us naked by the end of the party!  Saint oiled our bodies to perfection, Gummy Bear took care of the “hands free” towel duty and later on became the bartender when Mindless drank a pitcher of margaritas and passed out (just kidding).  Seriously, it was a party that could not be beat.  In fact, I’m wondering how in the hell we are planning to top it.  We even had a conga line (imagine the comments there).  So, if you want to rock out this summer and the cool down by the pool, stop by Tuesday night at 8PM Eastern on Cock Radio for a 2 hour pool party which takes place live on the radio as well as in the community kink chat room.  Oh, and don’t forget that Mistress Alexandria’s new show starts this week at 10PM, following the Pool Party.  So stick around for some SMOOTH JIZZ, with Alexandria.  Come be one of the cool kids!

Other Shit, LOL

I’m volunteering my time this summer for some great causes and since I am spreading the love around the community I might not be spreading the love around here as much.  I doubt you’ll notice, to be honest.  But, check the schedule because sometimes I am needed at the last minute and it’s unavoidable.  Summertime is such a wonderful season, I just have to get out and enjoy life and people and especially great causes.  There are a few that are near and dear to my heart so I am thrilled to be able to give back some of my time.  Naturally, I still want very much to be part of your life and your development, no matter what that might mean for you.  So, if your schedule doesn’t seem to mesh with mine, send me an email and request an appointment.  I’m always happy to adjust my schedule for YOU.    Of course, I’m not going to lie, some of the time I’ll spend away will be purely selfish.  I mean, the pool is open and a girl has to have some naughty parties, right?  Either way, you are always on the top of my list, don’t forget that.  *Kisses*
Tia

It’s a wonderful sunny Sunday morning and as I write this I am remembering how you woke me this morning.  You were so soft, and tender, caressing my body with your fingertips until I began to stir from my sleep.  Playfully, I rolled over with my back against you, rubbing that ass you crave so much against your growing hard on.  I can’t help it, even in my half awake state I’m still a cocktease.  But, you love it, don’t you?  Your fingers softly touched my already hardening nipples and I let out a soft moan to let you know how much I was enjoying your touch.  You began to kiss my neck and whispered softly into my ear, “good morning, sweetheart”.  Is it any wonder that I adore Sunday mornings?  Your hands slid down my body, stopping and making slow wonderful circles of delight along the way, teasing me the way only you can.  You know I want you so you slide your fingers between my already parting thighs and you gently touch that sweet spot, making me moan and arch my back against you.  I can’t wait any longer.  I part my thighs completely and roll into you, pulling you to me with amazing speed and hunger.  As we join together I smile, knowing this is going to be the beginning of a gorgeous Sunday.  We make love passionately for quite awhile and the climax builds to an earth shattering crescendo, both of us reaching the peak together.  I kiss you gently and say, “Want to shower with me?”  You smile and bound out of bed behind me.

Pool Party Happenings

Last week’s Pool Party on Cock Radio was a lot of fun, although we didn’t have a lot of turnout.  Evil Penguin showed up to wear my bikini after I had removed it, of course.  I love lying naked by the pool, being oiled and massaged by the lucky lad who manages to be FIRST into the radio chat room.  Gummy Bear has been the lucky oil boy two weeks straight now.  Think you can beat him this week?  Try to be the first one in the radio chat room at 8PM sharp this Tuesday evening and you will win that spot.  Believe me, it’s the spot you want.  Drinks are served by our own wonderful Saint, (unless he’s on oil boy duty) and towel boys are always needed (no hands required).  If we’re really lucky a mistress or two will stop by and we can double or triple your fun.  See you at the Pool Party this Tuesday night, June 14th, 8PM Eastern!

If you don’t have a twitter account you may want to get one quick.  The ladies of LDW/Enchantrix are going to twitterbate you and twitter-tease you all month with masturbation tips, masturbation facts and of course sexy talk via twitter.  So be sure to contact Empress Constance at constance@enchantrixempire.com to get your list of twittering teases.  Then, just sit back, relax, and masturbate to the tweets!

The Sissification Story Continues

For those of you who are waiting for the sequel to my last post you may just have to wait a bit longer.  After all, I’m a cock tease, right?  Let’s just say our beautiful new feminized and trained sissy is in for some surprises!  I’ll have the some of the story for you in a day or two.  In the meantime, I did post a new erotic audio in the audio store so please check it out.  I think those of you who enjoy a little small penis humiliation will really like this one.

The Mistress Interviews

Naturally I have to tell you that if you missed the 100th episode of the Mistress Interviews with Empress Ryan, you missed on helluva show!  Be sure to download the recording as soon as you can.  Mistress Ryan and I had some great conversation and it was so much fun.  We stayed much longer than any of our past shows but hey, it was the 100th episode and we just love to chat with each other.  Empress Ryan is a very hot long legged femdom and so sexy that I melt when I talk to her, much less go near her.  Be sure to stop in and say hi Thursday night at 11PM Eastern when she joins me for the Thirstday Night Cock Tales on Cock Radio and we share her personal music favorites!

Ta ta for now!

Tia

Well, this femdom is taking a day off and I have a lot planned.  I’m off to the salon to see my favorite hairdresser in the whole wide world and get my hair done while we dish about all the gossip.  I love getting my hair done.  I love all the great smelling shampoos and I love talking to everyone in the salon.   It’s bonding time for me.  Sometimes we talk about who is doing who around town and sometimes we talk about who we’d all like to be doing, if you know what I mean.  My fondest wish is that all the sissies out there take a day and get yourself off to the spa for a facial or get your hair done or get a manicure.  Whatever you are comfortable with, of course.  But, all of us girls need  a day of pampering and sissies are no exception to that number one girlie rule!

Femdom Panties and Shoes Too!

After I get my hair done I think I’ll stroll down to Macy’s and see what new spring shoes have come in.  I might even check out some new spring panties.  Speaking of panties, there are some lucky winners that will be seeing panties in the mail very soon!  If you won something from me and you haven’t contacted me yet, email me immediately at tia@enchantrixempire.com so I can get your prize out to you!  I’m happy to send off some panties to a lucky sissy boy or sissy girl.  It gives me an excuse to go out and buy more!  Which is what I will probably do today.

A Kinky Evening

Every goddess deserves a night of kink, right?  Well, I won’t kiss and tell but tonight is kink night and I plan to do it up right!  I think we’ll start with an evening by the firepit in the back yard and a few glasses of wine.  He’ll never know what hit him….me, maybe?  HAHAHAHAHA  Either way, when I return I’ll be all rested and relaxed and ready for some phone sex fun!

See You Saturday!