I had a great time at the pool party last night.  Gummy was first man in the door once again and this time he got to rub me down with warm oil until I couldn’t help myself and had to remove my bikini.  It was delicious.  We also had a new arrival, Tina the towel girl.  I had the chance to speak with Tina later and we had some delightful fun on the phone.  I hope she consents to being the towel girl next week.  Ms Sirena stopped by and commanded a boy of her own, it was so much fun to watch her take complete control of him.  Ms Steph was serving drinks in her bikini and after a minor mishap of landing in the margarita bowl (thanks to Tommieboy for saving her), she danced and served the drinks all night.  At one point she even “surfed” on the diving board.  It was an awesome pool party.  I’m looking forward to next week. 

After the party I took a break and then started taking some erotic fantasy calls.  I honestly love my job.  I got to have a two mistress call with Empress Mandy, which was so much fun.  We had a great time feminizing this guy and bending him over with our strap ons.  He was beside himself with ecstacy at the way we dressed him up and used him as our little cockslut.  Speaking of cocksluts, I’ve had quite a few closet cocksuckers call me lately.  We go from shy resistance to wild abandon and they soon realize that their absolute fantasy of sucking a cock and becoming a bisexual slut is not just a thought or dream, it’s a fully illustrated fantasy.  I love that.

As for the “get to know your mistress” part of my blog, I thought I would share something personal.  Someone asked me the other day if I ever really did this or if it’s just something I do on the phone.  Well, I did do this in real life at one time.  I lived in the city in my 20s and enjoyed quite a diverse lifestyle.  I was involved in a swinging relationship and later developed a taste for dominating men.  This led me to play parties and participating in the BDSM lifestyle.  I quickly realized that I love bringing pain into the party.  I adore making a man whimper.  So, CBT became one of my favorite forms of play.  I also fell in love with chastity and denial.  I enjoyed the five years I spent involved deeply in the BDSM lifestyle.

I soon made a decision that this lifestyle was something I truly loved, but I also loved living away from the city.  The city is a fun place to visit, but I’m a quiet person.  So, I moved away from the city and found that domming men on the phone was very satisfying.  I have never claimed do be an expert at anything, I am always learning.  I just know that I love talking to men on the phone, sharing their fantasies and getting to know them.  So, if we haven’t met yet, pick up the phone, I’d love to meet you.

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#1 – What are your favorite types of calls or fetishes? Well, I love them all and that’s the absolute truth but if I had to choose a favorite I would just put them in order so here’s my top four favorite types of calls: 1 – Guided masturbation. There is nothing as erotic as guiding a man and controlling his every move while he masturbates for me, the way I instruct him to. Watching him do this on webcam makes it even sexier. 2. CBT – Also known as Cock and Ball torture. I am quite a sadist at heart. I enjoy causing someone pain. I also enjoy finding creative ways to torture a man’s cock or his cock and balls and his ass and his nipples…you get the idea. Now, that doesn’t mean that I will cause you pain if that is not something you’re interested in. The joy of inflicting pain comes only when I’m lucky enough to inflict it on a willing submissive. 3. Teasing and Denial or Orgasm Control. Well, that is almost self explanatory really. I love to tease and I am a natural tease. Denying someone an orgasm is the ultimate exercise in control. I love making a man edge for me as many times as I can, only to deny him the pleasure of a complete orgasm. I also enjoy trying to make a man go for longer and longer periods of denial, training him slowly until he eventually has an orgasm only when I grant him permission. Lastly, number four is feminization which can, at times, include cuckolding and honestly those two are tied as my number four favorite fetish. Feminization is so erotic. Taking a man and transforming him into a feminine mirror image of his masculine self is beyond fun, in my opinion. Makeup is probably my favorite part and I enjoy teaching new sissies how to apply makeup properly. Then, of course, there are all the wonderful feminine clothing and lingerie we get to indulge in. Well, you can’t go wrong with a sissy fantasy, no matter how little or how extreme it is. Every part of the fantasy is fantastic. Cuckolding is also great because of the many elements that can be introduced. But, we can cover that in a later post.

Many of you know I took a few days off over the weekend to throw a summer party at my home. It was a huge success and I got to relax with some great friends. We drank and ate and swam and then watched the local fireworks show from my home. It was wonderful.

But, now I’m back all this week and looking forward to speaking with some of you again or even for the first time. Hopefully, we will get to speak sometime this week and discuss your favorite fetish or fantasy.

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Last weekend was the first warm weekend we’ve had here in Oregon and it was wonderful. I got to take a trip further north and it was a gorgeous drive. We drove up to a little known hot springs area and did some skinny dipping in the natural hot springs. Of course, we like to wait until it’s very late at night and hike in so we can have a bit of privacy. It was stimulating in more ways than one, let me tell you. Especially since I am such a cock tease and well, let’s just say that makes the drive up even more enjoyable. Hey, I had to celebrate spring and masturbation month somehow, didn’t I? What better way than to masturbate someone while they are driving? This takes skill of course. You don’t want to do it in bumper to bumper traffic, but out on the open road or a back country road is very erotic. Of course, if you haven’t figured out by now that I have an exhibitionist side to me, then you haven’t been paying attention, have you? One of my first memories of nudity was taking off my tshirt in my boyfriend’s convertible while we were going down the freeway. Hey, he did it first. It was hot. So, sue me. I have to say that was the greatest five minutes. He pulled over and made me put it back on for legal reasons and of course common sense prevailed. But, in those five minutes I had such a rush of freedom. The wind caressing my half naked body was delicious. So, you can imagine how delighted I was at the hot springs.

In other news, the office has now been painted a beautiful coat of red. The track lighting was installed and I had a bit of a diva moment when I saw it because I didn’t like the way it was installed. So, they will be taking it down and redoing it. I haven’t bitched about anything at all til now, it was just something I knew I couldn’t live with. When I get the office up and running we’ll have a “phone sex with Tia in the hot tub” party because I can literally step out of my office and into the hot tub. Naturally, that will be nude hot tubbing. I did tell you I’m an exhibitionist, right?

Til next time,

Love and Kisses,

Ms Tia
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I talked to some interesting men last week.  One in particular I was very touched to speak with as he was one of  Ms Trish’s customers.  We talked about her and how much we miss her.  It was a nice conversation.

My chastity boy made it ten weeks and in honor of my birthday I let him finally have a much needed release.  It was so nice to hear the relief in his voice.  I just hope he doesn’t make the mistake of thinking my kindness will continue! 

I have had so many of you lately wanting to do roleplay fantasies.  It’s been a blast.  I love roleplay of any kind, it really gets my creative juices flowing, among other things, lol.  I have to say I was very wet the other night and it was due to you boys and your erotic imaginations.  We played all sorts of games.  I was everything from an ex wife to a cockteasing neighbor to your best friend and gym partner.  It was great. 

I’ll be taking calls tonight and most of the day this Saturday, the 27th of February.  I’ve also updated my schedule, finally.  So, give me a call and wish me a happy birthday.  I’d love to hear from you.

Kisses,

Ms Tia

Then, there were the cuckold pussy boys.  One in particular really intrigued me.  He told me of his ex girlfriend and how much he missed her.  But, the thing he missed the most was her talent for humiliating him.  In fact, she went so far as to invite her mother over for dinner and boss him around the entire night.  When her mother spoke up and said not to speak to him like that, this little princess smiled and said, “Tell mother what you are”.  To which he replied, “I’m her obedient pussy boy”.  I wish I could have seen the look on her mother’s face.  The times, they are a changin’ momma.  She was a brilliant cuckoldress, I must say.  She would not only have this man help her pick her next conquest, she made him listen to her rave on and on about his big cock and what a great fuck he was.  That’s not the end of it, but I will tell you more later.

Lastly, I’ve had some mind blowing guided masturbation sessions.  So much so that I decided to create an audio called Guided Masturbation 101.  I will be your instructress, Ms Tia.  Please be sure to bring your supplies to class, as indicated on the handout.  For those of you who will be doing the advanced strap on class, a butt plug will be required for Guided Masturbation 101.  I am always taking new students.  I love hearing men masturbate for me, or even better yet, seeing them on camera during our phone sex call.  What femdom doesn’t love being adored this way?  He can whimper and moan and I can control every stroke.  The best part is getting him to the edge of orgasm over and over again, if he’s man enough for it.  Some of these boys can’t take much more than once and they blow their load.  These are the ones who could benefit from my guided masturbation training.  Do you think you need to be trained?  If you think you do, you probably do.  Let’s talk about it.

Later boys!

Mistress Tia

In addition to that change, my phone number will soon be changing.  That’s right babies you won’t be able to dial my direct phone sex line any longer in the very near future.  But, don’t worry, you’ll still be able to get to me quickly and efficiently through one of our lovely dispatchers.  Just dial 800-601-6975 and the beautiful woman on the other end of the line will put you through to me.

The best part of all of this is my availability is also changing.  I will now be available much more often than the past few years.  Which means your guided masturbation sessions can happen more frequently.  You can whine and beg and plead for me more often.  I can deny your orgasms or listen to your orgasms more than I have in the past.

A few of you have come to me lately asking for specific training in one area or another.  Some have asked for masturbation training and some for feminization training.  I am more than happy to outline a training schedule for you, but be prepared.  Just as this takes some work on my part, it takes dedication on your part.  I expect you to be committed to your tasks and accountable to me, your Empress.  If you’d like to make an appointment for masturbation or feminization training (or any other kinky fetishes you like) just email or IM me.

So, 2010 is fast approaching and it’s time for new beginnings.  Do you have a list of new kinks you want to try or a new fetish you haven’t explored?  Let’s do it!  I love new adventures.

Til next time!

Ms Tia

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It occurred to me that many of you, or some of you, have a weight problem. Most of you also have a wait problem when it comes to orgasms.   You can’t wait to masturbate, in fact you are addicted to masturbating.  So, to solve both issues I came up with a plan. Scientific studies have shown that your libido or need for sex is higher if you are actually physically hungry. Basically, as your need for food increases; so does your desire for sexual fulfillment. Isn’t it funny that you crave both at once? I suppose that would explain foodies, wouldn’t it? You know those guys that like to combine food and sex. Now, for me, that idea is just gross. I can’t stand the thought of having you lick chocolate sauce and ice cream off my beautiful ass. Ugh! This is especially true if you’re already a pudgy little fucker. I know I could tell you to get on the treadmill but honestly, would you do it? No, you probably wouldn’t.

So, here’s the plan. Every time you’re hungry, you should masturbate. Sounds easy enough, doesn’t it? Heading to the kitchen for a late night snack? Masturbate. Sitting down to watch the game with a few beers and some chili dogs? Masturbate at half time and skip the chili dogs. First thing in the morning instead of breakfast, masturbate. I know what you’re thinking. “But, Mistress, I’ll be hungry all the time”. No, you won’t. I came up with a solution for that. Some of you might call it a “catch”. But, I prefer to think of it as the perfect solution to your dieting woes. After all, I am a Mistress and I don’t really want you to cum that often, do I?

Here’s the plan. If you are hungry, go ahead and get whatever it is you crave. Masturbate first and cum on what you are about to eat. Want a bowl of ice cream? Cum on it first. Ice cream is better with toppings, don’t you think? Have a little extra protein on those wheaties each morning and skip that spoon of sugar. Don’t forget to add some to the Orange Juice! MMMMMM. Things go better with cum. Now, if you don’t like the taste of your own cum, obviously you aren’t going to eat much, are you? If you’re a fat fucktard that’s a good thing. But if you aren’t, a good solution for that is to avoid red meat and eat pineapple or drink pineapple juice. Cum tastes better when it’s sweeter.

Now, you might ask yourself..do I have to eat my own cum? Yes, you absolutely have to eat your own cum. This is a vital part of the Masturbation Addict’s Diet. So, get ready to chow down on some spermies, boys!

Let me know how much weight you lose on your new diet and I’ll be checking back in for the results later.

Bye for now babies!

Mistress Tia

Are you a chronic masturbator or do you like to see how long you can masturbate without achieving an orgasm? Do you like to milk your prostate? Do you like to be forced to eat your own cum? Many of you have shown me some very interesting devices you use in your masturbation regimen. Masturbation could actually be considered a form of exercise for some of you, couldn’t it? A way to “clean the pipes”, so to speak.

But, there are those of you who are very adventurous.  The ones who tell me they want to leave it completely in my hands.  They want me to decide how they masturbate and whether or not they cum.  This is so much fun for me because I get to control the basic need you have to have an orgasm.  Guided masturbation is exactly that; me telling you how I want you to masturbate.  You follow my instructions on during the phone sex call and that includes stopping, starting and stopping as many times as I like.  I can make you go for hours, increasing your desire to orgasm a bit each time.  I might give you a release if you really feel it’s something you can’t do without.  But, for the most part, I love it when a client tells me it’s my decision.  This means you are in for a lot of hot steamy fun and a wild ride!  If you think you’d like to take that ride…you know the number!

Mistress Tia

So, I was thinking the other day about the differences between guided masturbation and actual orgasm control and how they can both be used during the same session but in most cases they are not. Some people might think they are one in the same but they are so very different. Guided masturbation takes place when you let me tell you exactly how I want you to masturbate. I can make you go faster or slower, use lube or not, I can make you stroke with just your fingertips or your whole hand. I have many different techniques I like to use on different men. They all lead up to an ultimate finish, or not.

Orgasm control is much like edging in the fact that we try to control your actual orgasm or keep it from happening in some cases. Now, if we keep your orgasm from happening at all, then we would refer to it as orgasm denial. If we keep edging and edging, getting you closer to orgasm and making you stop; that’s orgasm control. Sometimes I can take the orgasm control even further by teaching you how to make your orgasm last longer, or teaching you how to have multiple orgasms. Yes, I know your cock just stood at attention on that last line, didn’t it?

Well, I left a little tease for you last week on Tease Mafia so be sure to check it out. You know how much I love to tease you!

Talk to you later and happy stroking!

Tia