I was speaking with a client the other night and he asked me a question that I get quite often.  The question was, “Have you ever cuckolded someone?”  Well, naturally, I have cuckolded many men.  But he specifically wanted to know about that first time.  To be honest, I didn’t know there was a word for it that long ago.  It wasn’t something I had planned to do or even discussed with my current lover.  It was just something that happened.  You see, Joe, my lover, wasn’t exactly spectacular in the lovemaking department.  But he was a nice guy and he spoiled me rotten.  I had always gravitated toward older men and Joe appealed to me on many levels.  He took me to the best restaurants and bought me the best clothes and perfume.  Being young and in college it was “cool” to have an older man fawn over me and take me places.  As I said, he was “ok” in the bedroom.  Nothing spectacular, to be honest.  In fact, what he didn’t have in penis size he made up for in money and he was very attentive.

I expressed to Joe a desire to join a very prestigious health club and of course he eagerly whipped out his credit card.  Little did he know that this would begin his cuckold journey.  I went to the health club daily and I loved it.  There were a lot of great classes, taught by excellent instructors.  One class in particular quickly became my favorite for a few reasons.  One, it moved quickly and had very hip music, which I love.  It worked me hard and I love to work hard.  But, the other reason was the instructor.  He was FINE.  I mean F-I-N-E.  He was handsome and muscular without being overbuilt.  I wasn’t the only girl that had a crush on him though so I assumed my chances were next to nothing.  Besides, I had Joe, right?  Wrong.

One night I went out with some friends from my dorm and we hit a few new clubs.  I just happened to run into the instructor from my class at the third club we went to.  I was pleasant and we chatted a little.  He even bought me a drink.  But, then, one of the girls I was out with whispered in my ear that she had heard he had a monstrous cock.  Well, that was all I needed to know and I made it my mission to bed him that night.  After all, Joe would never know.

I was successful in getting him to take me home with him that night and I just couldn’t get enough of him.  He did have an enormous cock but it was more than that.  He was a fabulous lover.  He worked me out even  more than in his classes and I was putty in his hands.  This went on for awhile.  A few months to be exact.  I had to really juggle seeing Tyrone (that was his name) and Joe.  I didn’t think there was any harm in getting from Tyrone what I wasn’t getting from Joe.

Then, it happened.  One night I was leaving a restaurant with Tyrone and we ran into Joe.  Joe was shocked, I could tell.  But, it was even more shocking to me when he called me the next day.  I thought for sure my days of having an older sugar daddy were completely over.

I went to see Joe and he told me how turned on it had made him seeing me with Tyrone.  He said all he could think of all night long was the thought of me being fucked by that big beautiful black man and he imagined that huge cock inside me.  He said he had never had such an intense orgasm masturbating as he had when he was thinking about me and Tyrone.  He asked me to tell him all the details and he was sure we had been sleeping together.  So, I did even better for poor sweet Joe since I had just left Tyrone’s bed less than an hour before showing up at Joe’s house.

I slid off my damp panties which were still slightly sticky from Tyrone’s huge load and the fantastic pounding he had given me before I left.  I handed them to Joe.  He put them to his nose and sniffed them, and he smiled.  Although it was all accidental, I had become a cuckoldress and Joe had become a cuckold.  Thus began my first cuckold relationship.  But, not my last.

I’m sure most of you know I took a few days off last week to head north and enjoy some fun  with friends.  These particular friends live very far north on an island so our visit involved a ferry ride.  No, not a FAIRY ride, lol.  It’s been a long time since I’ve been on a ferry and I tend to get a bit seasick so I made sure to load up on dramamine before we boarded.  Little did I know that I would be much more relaxed than I had planned.  In fact, I was so relaxed, I decided to get a bit amorous on the night ferry ride, under a blanket.  Well, more than a bit.  It was a romantic feeling, wrapped in a blanket in the dark, seeing the city lights fade from view and the island in the distance.  It was a gorgeous summer night, skirting across the water in silence as we sat on the observation deck, under a blanket.  We quickly noticed we were the only ones on the observation deck that late at night.  Naturally, my cock teasing ways went into full throttle the more I relaxed and the warmer I got under that blanket.  Soon, I was kissing and caressing him, my hands wandering into his pants.  His breath was coming a bit faster as he got more excited and I could tell he was enjoying my fingers gently stroking his hard cock.  Thankfully, I wore a skirt for this particular trip so I climbed up on his lap and put that wonderful hard on to some good use.  It felt fantastic, watching the ferry boat travel across the water, feeling the vibration of the engine in our bodies and feeling him inside me.  I must say it was the most enjoyable ferry ride I’ve ever been on and something this femdom hasn’t done before.  I think I found a way to cure my seasickness, to say the least.

Phone Sex Fun

So, I’m now back home and very relaxed from my mini vacation.  I really enjoyed it and I feel completely rejuvenated.  I had some great fun with a few of my favorite sissies the last few days.  I have a particular little sissy fag that loves wearing diapers and I came up with the idea of filling her sissy diaper with chocolate pudding just for fun.  I mean, it’s hot out, so why not have some cool fun?  I think next week we’ll fill that diaper with some water and freeze it for a cold experience!  I also have some beautiful sissies that I’ve shared salon tips with and gone shopping with as well as taught them a few things about becoming a true sissy fag.  I talked to a very dear cuckold that has been my customer for a few years now and I love how the cuckold relationship has evolved for him.  One of the things I think I truly enjoy about talking on the phone sex lines is seeing people grow and hearing how their lives change as they develop that kinky side of themselves.  It always makes me smile.  Let’s smile together soon, shall we?

Tia

What is it about summer that gets our juices flowing?  Is it the warm air sweeping against our bodies like the caress of a long lost lover?  Is it the fact that we start wearing much less and showing more skin?  Or is it the fact that the days start to lengthen and so do the chances of daydreaming or fantasizing?  I don’t know the answer to this one but I do know I think summer was made for sex.  Sex outdoors, sex in the pool, sex everywhere.  Naturally, that includes hot phone sex.

Erotic Fun with the Ladies of LDW

I had so much fun earlier this evening.  Tuesdays have now become my absolute favorite day of the week.  I get to spend two hours on the radio, playing some great beach tunes and party music and talking to all my wonderful friends, both mistresses and chatters.  But, tonight was special because I also got to spend some time with Mistress Alexandria and her new show, Smooth Jizz.  We had a wonderful time and turned the pool party into a backyard jazz club.  Now, next week Ms Alexandria will of course have her jazz club completely remodeled and she’s even put out an advertisement for a bouncer as well as a few other club duties so be sure to get your resume’ in and grab a great spot in the coolest online adult radio jazz club ever.

Cuckolding Fantasies and Body Worship

I had the opportunity tonight to explore two of my favorite fantasies with some really great guys.  They know who they are so I won’t mention names.  The first fantasy of the evening was a great fun fantasy of my cuckold boy being transformed into the new nanny for his now pregnant wife.  It seems her lover and her had been quite busy and she was expecting the love-child any day now.  It was exciting to me, telling him how my belly was growing with my lover’s seed and how he would now be the wet nurse for my child instead of the unsatisfactory lover and husband he had once been.

The next call was all about the worship of my gorgeous body.  I have to say, body worship is something I completely adore also.  The thought of a man burying his face in every inch of my body and smothering it with kisses and pure adoration makes me wet just thinking about it.  But, I love it when a man seems to almost inhale my essence.  I want to make him drink the perfume of my body and become drunk with desire.  I want to feel his hands and lips on my body for as long as I demand or as long as he can physically keep going.  If it is a test of wills in that respect, I know I will win.  But, the journey through the contest is the best part.

Later babies!

Whenever I get a man with a cuckold fantasy on the phone sex line I want so badly to be one of his wife or girlfriend’s closest friends.  Why would I want that, you ask?  Because being her close friend would enable me to convince her to begin the slow torturous humiliation of cuckolding him.  I would tell her how the guys at the gym or nightclub are always checking her out and she’s doing a disservice to them by not at least acknowledging they exist.  Besides, she has told me how inadequate you are and it sounds like you deserve it if she sleeps with someone who can please her.  In fact, I would be willing to bet you even expect her to.  It’s not like you’d ever leave her, you worship her.  After all, she isn’t getting any younger and if she wants to find out what it’s like to fuck a real man she’d better do it while she has the opportunity and the body.  Yes, I would instigate the whole thing.  I would introduce her to some athletic stud who has the stamina and skill that you obviously don’t.    I would even convince her that you actually want to be submissive.  I’d point out to her the way you dutifully do as she says and wait on her hand and foot.  I’d wear her down and soon your slut wife or girlfriend would be staying out all night in a motel room with this fine young stud I introduced her to.  Of course, she’d never know that you were hoping for this all along.  You can thank me later, cucky.

A lot of boys seem to think I’m a mean mistress.  I don’t know whatever gave them that idea.  If you are a loser, you’re a loser.  If you are a small dicked wimp, that’s what you are.   I don’t think it’s mean at all to point those things out to you and laugh about it.  I mean, it’s obvious to me so it must be obvious to the rest of the world and especially any women in your life that you’ve tried to woo along the way, right?  Get used to it, you’re not a real man.  You don’t measure up.  Now, if that’s mean, then so be it.  But, I am not being mean, I’m just being truthful and honest.  Boys like you (and I do mean BOYS) have a few purposes, that’s true.  You’re good for body worship or cleaning my boots.  You’re definitely good for some comic relief.  Who doesn’t love a good laugh?  But, I don’t yell and I don’t punish you for being who you are.  You’re a shrimp dick and a submissive wimp.  I’ll just laugh and point like all the other women in your life.  I’m sure you’re used to it, right?

Cuckold Fantasies

Every now and then I do like to indulge in my own cuckold fantasies.  Yes, I love cuckolding a man and I have cuckolded several in my time.  The look on their poor little face the first time I tell them that they are not satisfying me sexually in any way and I’ll be getting my sexual satisfaction elsewhere is priceless.  They almost always get an erection.  It’s not like they don’t know they’re inadequate.  The question is, are they willing to succumb to the humiliation of knowing that their lady, the woman they adore, is now going to be giving her sexual favors to more skilled men?  That’s the thing a cuckold has to decide, I suppose.  Most of the time they decide to endure the frustration and submit.  After all, they know they suck at sex and not in a good way.  So, if you have fantasized about being told for the first time by your loving wife that she’s sick of your pathetic attempts at lovemaking and wants a real man…listen to the erotic audio below.

Later!

Tia

Ok, I had to share.  I am not surprised to see this but at the same time I am.  I suppose we should all bow down to the great Gene Simmons who really will, it seems, put his likeness on anything, anywhere, anytime for the sake of the almighty dollar.  For those of you who have always had a bit of a tongue fetish, you may want to rush right down to the local drugstore and buy this.  You have to see it to believe it: http://www.roadrunnerrecords.com/blabbermouth.net/news.aspx?mode=Article&newsitemID=154910  Now, naturally I have to say I think having that long gorgeous tongue in my ass would be a fantastic thing.  But, I have to say when I saw these I pictured slipping one onto my strap on and getting ready to anally penetrate a sissy bitch with it.  I mean, it would be so entertaining to shove Gene Simmons’ face in someone’s ass.  Just a thought.

What Makes Me Masturbate?

Everyone asks me if I masturbate during phone calls.  Even my physician has asked me this question.  Of course, I normally avoid the answer.  But, to be honest, yes, I do masturbate during some phone sex calls.  So, what is it that would make me hot enough to masturbate on the phone with you?  Well, let me tell you….  IF you are a naughty sissy whore and you are really into taking that strap on or dildo anyway and every way I like, I might masturbate to that.  If you are a cuckold and you want me to tell you how much I love fucking that guy next door/at the gym/in my office/your boss, I might masturbate to that.  If you allow me to deny your orgasm but cock tease you until you whimper and beg, I might masturbate to that.  I might masturbate to almost any type of call.  But, I will most likely masturbate with you if you are expressive and if I know you are totally giving yourself over to our phone sex fantasy.  The more breathless you are and the more “into it” you are, the more I am also.  So, that’s the answer to your question.  Til next time,

Ms Tia

Do you ever wonder what goes through a mistress’s mind on a daily basis?  We are of the kinkier persuasion, after all.  For instance, if I see a man perusing panties in a department store I don’t assume, like most women, that he’s either shopping for a wife or girlfriend.  I assume he’s probably shopping for himself and he’s either a crossdresser or a sissy boy. 

I love to observe people and I see a lot of kink in the world around me.  I went out a few nights ago with some friends and one of the ladies in the group got a bit pissed at her boyfriend for not dancing with her.  So, she got up and danced with these two great looking black bulls.  You would have thought her boyfriend would have been pissed but it was just the opposite.  He was so turned on by the way she was looking at him while she was dancing with these two gorgeous men that he couldn’t get her out of there and home fast enough!  Everyone else in our party thought they were going to have a huge fight but I could tell from the look on his face he was going to fuck her silly and think of those two black men fucking her instead.  She has no idea he has a cuckold fetish and she probably never will.

Your Sexual Observations

It’s really interesting the things we notice when we’re tuned in to the kink world, isn’t it?  What sort of things have you noticed in your day to day life that led you to believe they were kink or fetish related?  I would love to hear them.

I’m sure a lot of you wonder what a typical day is like for a phone sex femdom like myself.  Well, let me give you a bit of insight.  Take today, for example.  I made my way out of bed a bit late.  Noon to be exact.  I wasn’t planning to sleep in so late but I was up until 5AM on the phone with a naughty little cum eater who just couldn’t seem to get it in his head that the only way I was going to let him have an orgasm was if he agreed to lick it out of a saucer, like a dog.  Poor little humiliated puppy.  He finally gave in and I laughed while I heard him eagerly licking up every drop of his spunk.  After that it was lights out and off to slumberland.  I woke up at noon, as I said.  Breakfast was already cooked long ago and waiting for me on the stove in a container.  MMMM, corned beef hash and scrambled eggs.  It tasted wonderful.  Mr Tia was long gone, off to help some friends move a very heavy antique piano.

News and Breakfast

I sat down at the dining room table with my reheated breakfast and a cup of wonderful coffee.  The Sunday paper was already on the dining room table and I could see that Mr Tia had read the sports section so I knew it was fair game.  Quickly, I perused the paper and made a few mental notes like the goings on in Libya and the fact that the drag queen show was coming back to town, yay!  I ate almost all of my breakfast, being sure to leave a few small bites on my plate for the mooching chihuahuas at my feet.  They are so cute, how could I deny them?  It’s not the same as denying a masturbation addict.

I got up from the table, stretched and did my dishes.  Then, I headed down to the bedroom to decide what to wear for the day.  Since it was a rainy day I chose a pair of leggings and a long sweater.  Comfy but cute, just the way I like it.  Putting my hair up in a ponytail I grabbed one more cup of coffee and headed to my office.

Off to Tease the Boys

First things first; answer my emails.  After that, I decided to work on a few audio ideas I had.  Yes, there is a new audio over at teasemania so be sure to check it out.  Then, I made another cup of coffee and turned on the phones.  Time for a little fun.  I talked to a guy who wanted to be my ex husband that I forced into becoming a cuckold sissy maid.  He was such a whiner!  But, it was fun describing to him how I would take out my strap on and fuck his sweet little ass while he scrubbed my kitchen floor.  Up next was a two mistress call with Mistress Mandy.  She had a dirty little slut who was in his office.  Dirty slut boy wanted to fuck himself in the ass with various things and then lick them clean while wearing panties.  I don’t think I’ll ever look at a large Sharpie pen the same again.  I enjoyed that call a lot and Ms Mandy and I got quite a giggle out of the dirty little slut while he performed for us.  After that, a few more phone calls and some notes for future audios.  I spoke with a cuckold and then a boy whom I had tied to his bed a few nights before and still hadn’t granted him permission to cum.  Alas, he was denied his orgasm once again, poor boy.  Time went by quickly and it was 5PM on the West coast so it was time for a little exercise and dinner.

I signed out and checked my email once again.  Then, I headed into the other room with my Zune to zone out on the exercise bike for 30 minutes.  After that it was upstairs for a shower and a quick dinner.  I spent some time over dinner talking to Mr Tia about the piano move, his back was hurting him.  So, I put a pain patch on his back and kissed him goodbye after washing up my dishes.  I might be a femdom but I’m not totall heartless.

Then, it was back to work for a few more hours which included uploading some new audios to the radio station, checking out the Enchantrix Empire and teasing the hell out of a few naughty boys.

Now, I’m sitting here writing this before heading upstairs to bed.  I’ll see you all at noon Eastern tomorrow!  *Kisses*

You have probably been here a few times, or maybe this is your first time reading this blog.  Either way, you probably wonder exactly what a training session with me consists of.  Well, let me tell you what it takes to be one of my trainees.  First, you must be dedicated to your training.  No matter what I ask of you, you must be willing to comply.  Now, this is not to say I’m rigid or non negotiable.  You can, of course, negotiate with me.  But you’d better have a good reason for not wanting to do that particular task.  Maybe you’ve never experienced anal training and you have no desire to.  That’s fine, we don’t have to do that.  Or maybe the thought of eating your own cum disgusts and repulses you rather than turns you on.  I can work within your parameters.  But, if you think you can ask me for masturbation management training and then run off as soon as you hang up and jack off to your heart’s desire, think again.  As for those of you who tell me you want denial and then balk at the thought of not being able to finish at the end of your call I have a quote for you.  “Be careful what you wish for.”  Be sure that when you ask for orgasm denial you actually mean it.  This way we both get exactly what we want.

Feminization Training

Sissies are a completely different ball game and take special long term training.  A sissy needs to learn everything about being female.  Sissies will be expected to complete certain shopping tasks, like buying their own panties and stockings.  Sissies should learn the proper techniques for applying makeup and how to walk in heels without falling all over themselves.  A good sissy will also understand that grooming is her number one priority.  Sissification training is a long and complicated process which will take you on a feminization journey.  We will explore everything from being a sissy maid to being a sissy cuckold and you can decide what works for you.  Maybe you just want to be a cock sucking sissy fag.  That’s fine, too.  Just tell me and we’ll proceed with your training based on the results you want to achieve.  If you’d like an example of what I consider a good sissy assignment you can check out my latest assignment at Sissyville.

I’ll talk more about other forms of training tomorrow.  Until then, if you’d like to set up a call with me please feel free to fill out the pre-call questionnaire at the top of this page.  I will receive an immediate email with your answers and you and I can work together on the ultimate phone sex fantasy.