I had a great time at the pool party last night.  Gummy was first man in the door once again and this time he got to rub me down with warm oil until I couldn’t help myself and had to remove my bikini.  It was delicious.  We also had a new arrival, Tina the towel girl.  I had the chance to speak with Tina later and we had some delightful fun on the phone.  I hope she consents to being the towel girl next week.  Ms Sirena stopped by and commanded a boy of her own, it was so much fun to watch her take complete control of him.  Ms Steph was serving drinks in her bikini and after a minor mishap of landing in the margarita bowl (thanks to Tommieboy for saving her), she danced and served the drinks all night.  At one point she even “surfed” on the diving board.  It was an awesome pool party.  I’m looking forward to next week. 

After the party I took a break and then started taking some erotic fantasy calls.  I honestly love my job.  I got to have a two mistress call with Empress Mandy, which was so much fun.  We had a great time feminizing this guy and bending him over with our strap ons.  He was beside himself with ecstacy at the way we dressed him up and used him as our little cockslut.  Speaking of cocksluts, I’ve had quite a few closet cocksuckers call me lately.  We go from shy resistance to wild abandon and they soon realize that their absolute fantasy of sucking a cock and becoming a bisexual slut is not just a thought or dream, it’s a fully illustrated fantasy.  I love that.

As for the “get to know your mistress” part of my blog, I thought I would share something personal.  Someone asked me the other day if I ever really did this or if it’s just something I do on the phone.  Well, I did do this in real life at one time.  I lived in the city in my 20s and enjoyed quite a diverse lifestyle.  I was involved in a swinging relationship and later developed a taste for dominating men.  This led me to play parties and participating in the BDSM lifestyle.  I quickly realized that I love bringing pain into the party.  I adore making a man whimper.  So, CBT became one of my favorite forms of play.  I also fell in love with chastity and denial.  I enjoyed the five years I spent involved deeply in the BDSM lifestyle.

I soon made a decision that this lifestyle was something I truly loved, but I also loved living away from the city.  The city is a fun place to visit, but I’m a quiet person.  So, I moved away from the city and found that domming men on the phone was very satisfying.  I have never claimed do be an expert at anything, I am always learning.  I just know that I love talking to men on the phone, sharing their fantasies and getting to know them.  So, if we haven’t met yet, pick up the phone, I’d love to meet you.

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#1 – What are your favorite types of calls or fetishes? Well, I love them all and that’s the absolute truth but if I had to choose a favorite I would just put them in order so here’s my top four favorite types of calls: 1 – Guided masturbation. There is nothing as erotic as guiding a man and controlling his every move while he masturbates for me, the way I instruct him to. Watching him do this on webcam makes it even sexier. 2. CBT – Also known as Cock and Ball torture. I am quite a sadist at heart. I enjoy causing someone pain. I also enjoy finding creative ways to torture a man’s cock or his cock and balls and his ass and his nipples…you get the idea. Now, that doesn’t mean that I will cause you pain if that is not something you’re interested in. The joy of inflicting pain comes only when I’m lucky enough to inflict it on a willing submissive. 3. Teasing and Denial or Orgasm Control. Well, that is almost self explanatory really. I love to tease and I am a natural tease. Denying someone an orgasm is the ultimate exercise in control. I love making a man edge for me as many times as I can, only to deny him the pleasure of a complete orgasm. I also enjoy trying to make a man go for longer and longer periods of denial, training him slowly until he eventually has an orgasm only when I grant him permission. Lastly, number four is feminization which can, at times, include cuckolding and honestly those two are tied as my number four favorite fetish. Feminization is so erotic. Taking a man and transforming him into a feminine mirror image of his masculine self is beyond fun, in my opinion. Makeup is probably my favorite part and I enjoy teaching new sissies how to apply makeup properly. Then, of course, there are all the wonderful feminine clothing and lingerie we get to indulge in. Well, you can’t go wrong with a sissy fantasy, no matter how little or how extreme it is. Every part of the fantasy is fantastic. Cuckolding is also great because of the many elements that can be introduced. But, we can cover that in a later post.

Many of you know I took a few days off over the weekend to throw a summer party at my home. It was a huge success and I got to relax with some great friends. We drank and ate and swam and then watched the local fireworks show from my home. It was wonderful.

But, now I’m back all this week and looking forward to speaking with some of you again or even for the first time. Hopefully, we will get to speak sometime this week and discuss your favorite fetish or fantasy.

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I’ve decided to take part in Mistress Ann’s Sissy Pennies Auction. You can earn sissy pennies by leaving a comment on my blog, right here, or leaving a comment on the Mistress Interviews blog or the Talkshoe page. You can also earn pennies by attending a Mistress Interview. Next week, I’ll be interviewing Ms Vivian, so be sure to stop in and ask a few questions!

Now, for the office remodel saga. The office is in a holding pattern at the moment. That means my darling husband has run out of steam, lol. But, we purchased more drywall (really, more drywall!!??) and a few more walls will go up this week. After that, it’s time for me to get involved with some tape and mud, sanding, etc. Yes, I can do all that and I only hope I don’t break a nail. It’s a great upper body workout though, so I look forward to it. I will be out this weekend buying some much needed supplies. Much needed as in a television for the office, of course. An intelligent woman has to stay current with the world, you know. I also bought an aquarium last week because fish are relaxing and I love a relaxing atmosphere. The only things left are the elliptical (still shopping for that one) and a great chaise lounge. Both of which I am nowhere near ready to place in the office yet.

So, I’m off to bed and then shopping all day tomorrow. I’ll be back Sunday evening, look for me. I’ll be looking for YOU.

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My favorite call came from S who was listening to his wife get fucked by his extremely well hung best friend while he was on the phone with me, jacking off of course.  He was telling me all about her moans and screams of delight.  Apparently, his best friend had an anaconda cock and was at that very moment thrusting it into his wife with wild abandon.  This made S very hard, he knew he couldn’t satisfy her in that way.  But, listening to his wife be fulfilled by his best friend made him so horny he couldn’t stand it.  He didn’t mind that she was being a cock whore, nope, not one bit.  The humiliation he felt was part of the eroticism. 

Have you heard that the femdom ladies are having a St Patrick’s Day Party?  Yes, they are going to be entertaining you until you’re green with delight this Wednesday, the 17th of March.  So, put your green suspenders on and see if you can Get Lucky with a phone sex femdom.  Naturally, we will be on the radio, although not 24 hours this time.  Check the adult internet radio blog for more details.

Meanwhile, you’ll be seeing a lot of me the next few weeks.  Check the schedule daily as it changes quite frequently.

Speaking of which, I am getting an instant message about a call so I will sign off.  Later, babies.

For an erotic phone session with Empress Tia, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card

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Let me just tell you that home parties for adult toys are not just a bunch of housewives ooohing and ahhhhing over dildos.  No, not by any stretch of the imagination.  We drink, we talk about men and their penises, and we play with toys.  There were creams and oils.  There was even a cream to help you give better blow jobs.  I’m sure some of Sir Matthew’s boys would like to try that one.  There was a dildo with a suction cup bottom that you could stick to any surface.  It stuck hard and I thought of making a sissy back up on it in the shower.  It was delightful.  I came away from the party with a buzz and a few things that buzzed!  So, I’ll be breaking in the new toys on my birthday this week.  I’ll let you know how it goes.

Tonight I spoke to a few of you, you know who you are.   Some of you had some of the most delicious fantasies.  I love it when you know what you want and you know exactly what you want to hear me say.  Letting me into your sexual fantasies is the most erotic thing you can do.  If you want me to get turned on during our phone sex session, share with me.  Share everything.  I guarantee a good time for both of us.

Speaking of which, the phone is ringing so I must run.

Kisses,

Tia

I talked to some interesting men last week.  One in particular I was very touched to speak with as he was one of  Ms Trish’s customers.  We talked about her and how much we miss her.  It was a nice conversation.

My chastity boy made it ten weeks and in honor of my birthday I let him finally have a much needed release.  It was so nice to hear the relief in his voice.  I just hope he doesn’t make the mistake of thinking my kindness will continue! 

I have had so many of you lately wanting to do roleplay fantasies.  It’s been a blast.  I love roleplay of any kind, it really gets my creative juices flowing, among other things, lol.  I have to say I was very wet the other night and it was due to you boys and your erotic imaginations.  We played all sorts of games.  I was everything from an ex wife to a cockteasing neighbor to your best friend and gym partner.  It was great. 

I’ll be taking calls tonight and most of the day this Saturday, the 27th of February.  I’ve also updated my schedule, finally.  So, give me a call and wish me a happy birthday.  I’d love to hear from you.

Kisses,

Ms Tia

I personally love March.  It’s my favorite time of year, the world is waking back up from it’s winter sleep and the flowers are popping up through the ground.  Life starts to return to the world and people seem to follow by being at their horniest and kinkiest, which is a great bonus.

I’ve had a great night tonight listening to some of the awesome audios that the ladies have put up on the forums and blogs lately.  In particular, I love the ladies room recording Ms Hunter and Ms Constance created together.  Dishing in the ladies room about their boyfriends and sex and sharing lipstick.  It was a yummy audio.  My other favorite was a many part cuckold audio by Ms Constance with a twist you won’t soon forget.  Erotic doesn’t even begin to describe it.  I got wet panties just listening to it.  If a cuckold fantasy is your favorite thing, don’t miss this sexy audio.

Off to answer the phone.  Talk to you soon!
Mistress Tia

So, you’re probably wondering…when are you taking calls Ms Tia?  I’ll be taking calls this week, I promise.  They are in the midst of building a new house behind mine and I just can’t seem to take my eyes off those construction workers lately.  It’s better than watching the pool boy in so many ways.  These guys get up on the roof and since my house sits up on a hill, it’s such a great view.  All that muscle and sweat…mmmmm. So, needless to say I’ve been distracted.  Not to mention the fact that along with construction comes a ton of noise.  But, I’ll be here this week.  Watch for me.

In other news I have a boy who has been in chastity training for over 6 weeks and he’s doing so well.  I’m very proud of  him.  He’ll be getting a release very soon, since my birthday is coming up and I like to give all my chastity sluts a little something to celebrate.  Naturally I’ll be celebrating also.  It’s not every day you turn whatever it is, lol.  You didn’t really think I’d tell you, did you?

So, if you have a longing for a good cuckold fantasy or you want to be in chastity or even if you want me to perform nasty torture on your ass, we should talk this week, or any other week for that matter.  See you soon!

Then, there were the cuckold pussy boys.  One in particular really intrigued me.  He told me of his ex girlfriend and how much he missed her.  But, the thing he missed the most was her talent for humiliating him.  In fact, she went so far as to invite her mother over for dinner and boss him around the entire night.  When her mother spoke up and said not to speak to him like that, this little princess smiled and said, “Tell mother what you are”.  To which he replied, “I’m her obedient pussy boy”.  I wish I could have seen the look on her mother’s face.  The times, they are a changin’ momma.  She was a brilliant cuckoldress, I must say.  She would not only have this man help her pick her next conquest, she made him listen to her rave on and on about his big cock and what a great fuck he was.  That’s not the end of it, but I will tell you more later.

Lastly, I’ve had some mind blowing guided masturbation sessions.  So much so that I decided to create an audio called Guided Masturbation 101.  I will be your instructress, Ms Tia.  Please be sure to bring your supplies to class, as indicated on the handout.  For those of you who will be doing the advanced strap on class, a butt plug will be required for Guided Masturbation 101.  I am always taking new students.  I love hearing men masturbate for me, or even better yet, seeing them on camera during our phone sex call.  What femdom doesn’t love being adored this way?  He can whimper and moan and I can control every stroke.  The best part is getting him to the edge of orgasm over and over again, if he’s man enough for it.  Some of these boys can’t take much more than once and they blow their load.  These are the ones who could benefit from my guided masturbation training.  Do you think you need to be trained?  If you think you do, you probably do.  Let’s talk about it.

Later boys!

Mistress Tia