I was speaking with a client the other night and he asked me a question that I get quite often.  The question was, “Have you ever cuckolded someone?”  Well, naturally, I have cuckolded many men.  But he specifically wanted to know about that first time.  To be honest, I didn’t know there was a word for it that long ago.  It wasn’t something I had planned to do or even discussed with my current lover.  It was just something that happened.  You see, Joe, my lover, wasn’t exactly spectacular in the lovemaking department.  But he was a nice guy and he spoiled me rotten.  I had always gravitated toward older men and Joe appealed to me on many levels.  He took me to the best restaurants and bought me the best clothes and perfume.  Being young and in college it was “cool” to have an older man fawn over me and take me places.  As I said, he was “ok” in the bedroom.  Nothing spectacular, to be honest.  In fact, what he didn’t have in penis size he made up for in money and he was very attentive.

I expressed to Joe a desire to join a very prestigious health club and of course he eagerly whipped out his credit card.  Little did he know that this would begin his cuckold journey.  I went to the health club daily and I loved it.  There were a lot of great classes, taught by excellent instructors.  One class in particular quickly became my favorite for a few reasons.  One, it moved quickly and had very hip music, which I love.  It worked me hard and I love to work hard.  But, the other reason was the instructor.  He was FINE.  I mean F-I-N-E.  He was handsome and muscular without being overbuilt.  I wasn’t the only girl that had a crush on him though so I assumed my chances were next to nothing.  Besides, I had Joe, right?  Wrong.

One night I went out with some friends from my dorm and we hit a few new clubs.  I just happened to run into the instructor from my class at the third club we went to.  I was pleasant and we chatted a little.  He even bought me a drink.  But, then, one of the girls I was out with whispered in my ear that she had heard he had a monstrous cock.  Well, that was all I needed to know and I made it my mission to bed him that night.  After all, Joe would never know.

I was successful in getting him to take me home with him that night and I just couldn’t get enough of him.  He did have an enormous cock but it was more than that.  He was a fabulous lover.  He worked me out even  more than in his classes and I was putty in his hands.  This went on for awhile.  A few months to be exact.  I had to really juggle seeing Tyrone (that was his name) and Joe.  I didn’t think there was any harm in getting from Tyrone what I wasn’t getting from Joe.

Then, it happened.  One night I was leaving a restaurant with Tyrone and we ran into Joe.  Joe was shocked, I could tell.  But, it was even more shocking to me when he called me the next day.  I thought for sure my days of having an older sugar daddy were completely over.

I went to see Joe and he told me how turned on it had made him seeing me with Tyrone.  He said all he could think of all night long was the thought of me being fucked by that big beautiful black man and he imagined that huge cock inside me.  He said he had never had such an intense orgasm masturbating as he had when he was thinking about me and Tyrone.  He asked me to tell him all the details and he was sure we had been sleeping together.  So, I did even better for poor sweet Joe since I had just left Tyrone’s bed less than an hour before showing up at Joe’s house.

I slid off my damp panties which were still slightly sticky from Tyrone’s huge load and the fantastic pounding he had given me before I left.  I handed them to Joe.  He put them to his nose and sniffed them, and he smiled.  Although it was all accidental, I had become a cuckoldress and Joe had become a cuckold.  Thus began my first cuckold relationship.  But, not my last.

I asked my chastity pet recently to write an essay about what chastity and being a chastity pet means to him, as well as why it is important to him.  I mainly did this because the poor dear has had not one but TWO accidents during his training and we’ve had to start all over from square one both times.  I’m sure he’ll begin to see the error of his ways soon or he’ll get writers cramp from all the essays.  Either way, I’ll get my point across because I ALWAYS do.  So, I asked him if I could share this essay with my readers and he agreed.  I thought it would be nice to share this with any future chastity slaves or those who might be considering being a chastity pet.  Enjoy.

An Essay from My Chastity Pet

Some of the reasons that my being in a position of chastity is important are that it prevents me from wasting time masturbating and thinking about other women, as i am immediately reminded that i am clearly owned and my concentration turns to You anytime that i begin to think of my (Your) cock.  It reminds me also that in order to even hope for release, i need to please you and obey you as you literally hold the key to any sexual pleasure i might have.  If i obey, which i always want to do, i have the hope of being rewarded.  But if i misbehave, i understand the confines that i am placed in, and it is also a reminder of the work i need to do to improve for You and the error that I need to correct and make amends to You for.   Chastity also strengthens my bond to you this way, because i know you are in care of my cock and you are simply protecting it for your own use, whether for pleasure or play.  The longer that i am locked up, the more sensitive my cock becomes to your touch and the more i crave your attention and mercy.  It is a small torture to wear the tube, but my orgasms will intensify and this greater feeling is directly linked to your control over me and the small pain is worth the great pleasure you will hopefully provide me once i better learn how to prevent edging too far. (My apologies again for that)  Being locked up prevents me from acting on urges that i might have if not locked up, or from doing what another Domme might encourage me to try if my cock was free and i was having a moment of weakness.  So i guess it promotes faithfulness to you in this way.   The chastity also acts as a training tool that makes me obey you too. For example, if i wanted to be defiant, i could skip my training and there would be no repercussions.  As it is though, i am willing to be much more open minded to your suggestions/commands and there is a clear goal that is noticeable and present.  I will volunteer to do practically anything for you.  I am a very willing sub to you, but this also makes me willing to experiment and is exciting for me to participate in doing daily too.  My wearing the cock tube is also a symbol of my submission to you and you are able to tell your friends and the other Empresses of LDW of Your little cock trophy that you keep locked away for when you wish to use it.  This also allows me to feel good that i am a benefit to you and that i am owned.  I want to be a good boy for you and with your training and guidance/control, i feel like i am truly yours.  I also know that being your sub is not defined simply by being in chastity to you, but is one method that you use to train me and may change whenever you feel it is necessary or more convenient for you.  For all of these reasons i am happily locked up and thankful to you for your patience, your generosity, and all that You do for me.  I am proud to be your pet.

Tiaspet

If you are interested in embarking on a chastity journey with me, give me a call.  You will learn much more than simply controlling your masturbation habits or learning not to stroke quite so often.

I love November.  I love watching the leaves change color here in Oregon.  The bright reds and russets and golds just amaze me.  Mother nature is a powerful woman, I’m sure of that.  In fact, she can be quite the femdom this time of year teasing us with her beauty and then throwing in the snow storm from hell to get our attention.  But, the best thing about this time of year is that I get to spend it cuddled up by a warm fire having erotic conversations with the boys I love most.  I sip my hot cider or hot buttered rum and purr in your ear as I hear you breathlessly moan for me.  Makes me all warm and tingly in my naughty parts just thinking about it.

Femdom Fantasies

I’m sure you’ve wondered what it might be like to be taken and owned by a beautiful woman, haven’t you?  To me, the best way for this to happen is a natural and slow progression, ending in complete devotion.  I like to get to know you on a personal level.  I like to know what sort of things really trip your trigger.  It’s a journey of discovery for both of us.  Sometimes, just letting me know a few simple things about you and your fantasies can set my mind racing.  Just as it is in your sex life with a physical partner, so it is with phone sex.  The more you learn about the person you are with and their body responses as well as their thoughts, the better the sex gets.  With phone sex, we have the meeting of two minds.  These two minds (yours and mine) share their thoughts and feelings and their darkest secret desires.  The end result is an explosion of epic proportions if done correctly.  Phone sex lets your imagination take over.  After all, your brain is your largest sex organ.  Over the next few weeks I will give you some examples of this, but for now…let your mind wander.

Kisses,

Tia

I decided today to tell you about some of my pets.  In particular, it seems the pets I have around the longest are my chastity slaves.  Most likely this is because chastity can be anywhere from a day or two to months and weeks at a time.  Yes, sometimes chastity can be years.  Of course that doesn’t mean that pets don’t get the occasional ruined orgasm or milking.  But, they stay in chastity as long as I want them to and they do what I tell them.  Not all of my chastity pets are kept in chastity devices.  Some chastity boys survive on just a promise, while others require a lock and key.  But, each pet is completely individual and unique.

Chastity Pet Number One

Chastity pet number one has been a pet of mine for about three years now, if not longer.  When this chastity boy came to me he was completely out of control.  He was a chronic masturbator and masturbated at least 2 to 3 times a day.  This boy has a special love of long beautiful legs and stockings as well as a fondness for cock teasing.  Naturally my 5 foot 9 inch frame and long legs as well as m love of cock teasing came in very handy here.  We have gotten to know each other over the years and I have extended his times of chastity a bit longer each time.  We recently completed a 21 week long chastity and I was so proud of him.  I have introduced exercises and stroking assignments for him to complete.  We don’t use a chastity device.  I rely simply on the trust of knowing he will not disappoint me.  He has known the wrath of my displeasure when he disobeys also.  Something I don’t think he’ll ever think to do again, I assure you.  The next goal with this slave is to get him to 26 weeks or 6 months of complete chastity.  I can’t wait to see the outcome.

Chastity Pet Number Two

This slave has been my pet for a short time.  I think it’s been about three weeks now, as a matter of fact.  The first thing I had to determine with him is whether or not a chastity device was necessary.  Since he had a strong penchant for masturbating I did think he needed one and instructed him to purchase it.  He received his device last week and placed it on himself, freezing the key to his lock as I instructed him to.  He is my pet and he states himself as such.  This slave has been given special consideration due to the fact he has a relationship and we work around that.  His complete adoration and willingness to please me is thrilling, I must say.  He has completed his assignments eagerly and begged for more.  I am going to enjoy teasing him and making him beg even further.  His devotion is refreshing and exciting.  Next week I will allow him to remove his chastity device although I haven’t quite decided on a regular orgasm or letting him experience what a ruined orgasm is.  Maybe I should put it to a vote here?  Would you like to leave a comment on what you think he should receive?  Go ahead, I’d love to hear your thoughts on the matter.

Til next time,

Ms Tia

I bet you’re thinking, “Well, wait a minute, an orgasm is an orgasm”.  How wrong you are.  There are types of orgasms and some of them might not even be considered an actual “orgasm”, but more of a release.  I get asked a lot about the difference between a normal regular orgasm, a coerced orgasm, and a ruined orgasm.  So, I thought I’d take a moment and share with you what I’ve learned over the years about these types of orgasms.

Coerced Orgasms

What is a coerced orgasm?  Well, it’s the exact opposite of orgasm denial.  A coerced orgasm comes after that first orgasm.  You are not allowed to stop stroking.  As we all know, most men need a little rest after an orgasm because of the heightened sensitivity that occurs.  This is where the coerced orgasm comes in.  My particular favorite way of coercing an orgasm is to use your own cum as actual lubricant and coerce you into stroking on and on, until you are begging me to let you stop.  Naturally, you will only be allowed to stop when we’re sure your balls are completely dry and empty!

Ruined Orgasms

A ruined orgasm is just exactly what it says it is.  It’s an orgasm that gets ruined.  What that means is, you don’t get to fully enjoy it.  At the exact moment of orgasm, I remove all stimulation.  This leaves you with a pulsating, pumping cock that is spurting cum everywhere and you are stuck with a feeling that you never actually had an orgasm at all!  Your cock has a mind of it’s own, as I’m sure you know.  So, once it is engaged in orgasm there is no going back, no matter how hard you try.  It’s the law of force, you know.  What goes up, must keep going up before it comes down!  HAHAHA.  The sheer frustration a ruined orgasm causes for YOU is so enjoyable for ME!  Yes, I’m a bit sadistic.  But that’s why I’m the mistress.

Til Next Time!

I’m sure most of you know I took a few days off last week to head north and enjoy some fun  with friends.  These particular friends live very far north on an island so our visit involved a ferry ride.  No, not a FAIRY ride, lol.  It’s been a long time since I’ve been on a ferry and I tend to get a bit seasick so I made sure to load up on dramamine before we boarded.  Little did I know that I would be much more relaxed than I had planned.  In fact, I was so relaxed, I decided to get a bit amorous on the night ferry ride, under a blanket.  Well, more than a bit.  It was a romantic feeling, wrapped in a blanket in the dark, seeing the city lights fade from view and the island in the distance.  It was a gorgeous summer night, skirting across the water in silence as we sat on the observation deck, under a blanket.  We quickly noticed we were the only ones on the observation deck that late at night.  Naturally, my cock teasing ways went into full throttle the more I relaxed and the warmer I got under that blanket.  Soon, I was kissing and caressing him, my hands wandering into his pants.  His breath was coming a bit faster as he got more excited and I could tell he was enjoying my fingers gently stroking his hard cock.  Thankfully, I wore a skirt for this particular trip so I climbed up on his lap and put that wonderful hard on to some good use.  It felt fantastic, watching the ferry boat travel across the water, feeling the vibration of the engine in our bodies and feeling him inside me.  I must say it was the most enjoyable ferry ride I’ve ever been on and something this femdom hasn’t done before.  I think I found a way to cure my seasickness, to say the least.

Phone Sex Fun

So, I’m now back home and very relaxed from my mini vacation.  I really enjoyed it and I feel completely rejuvenated.  I had some great fun with a few of my favorite sissies the last few days.  I have a particular little sissy fag that loves wearing diapers and I came up with the idea of filling her sissy diaper with chocolate pudding just for fun.  I mean, it’s hot out, so why not have some cool fun?  I think next week we’ll fill that diaper with some water and freeze it for a cold experience!  I also have some beautiful sissies that I’ve shared salon tips with and gone shopping with as well as taught them a few things about becoming a true sissy fag.  I talked to a very dear cuckold that has been my customer for a few years now and I love how the cuckold relationship has evolved for him.  One of the things I think I truly enjoy about talking on the phone sex lines is seeing people grow and hearing how their lives change as they develop that kinky side of themselves.  It always makes me smile.  Let’s smile together soon, shall we?

Tia

I can’t believe we are already coming to the end of masturbation month!  It literally stroked right by, didn’t it?  Hopefully, you all took advantage of it and masturbated your little hearts out.  I know some of my favorite stroker boys and orgasm denial sluts had a great time this month.  But, wait, I think if you keep your eyes on the Daily Cock you might find we have some events coming up in June that will make masturbation month look like a prequel.

Cock Radio and the Mistress Interviews

Speaking of which don’t forget that starting next week the weekly Pool Party and annual summer radio bash begins.  That’s right, the Mistress Interviews will be taking a hiatus for the summer and we’ll be partying by the pool live on Cock Radio.  One special difference this time will be the addition of new mistresses invited to stop in each week and visit with us.  So get your lotion and your towels (no, not that kind of lotion) and get ready to sip some margaritas by the pool with me this summer.  As always, the first chatter to get into the radio chat room for the show gets the coveted duty of being my personal oil boy and attendant for the TWO hour show!  That’s right, two hours of heaven by the pool with me, every Tuesday night at 8PM Eastern!

Memorial Day Phone Sex

As for this weekend, I’ll be around all weekend long as Mr Tia has decided to take a fishing vacation with some friends of his, leaving me alone to play, play, play all weekend long.  So, be sure to dial up my number on the phone sex line and play with me!

See you soon!

Ms Tia

If you are among those that follow the lovely ladies of LDW/Enchantrix and their blogs you will know one thing we all have in common.  We all like to have fun.  We have just as much fun teasing you and denying your orgasm as we do dressing up the sissy slut that calls in next or acting out a delectable cuckold fantasy with you.  We even have fun making you masturbate for us.  Whatever your kink is, we enjoy it to its fullest, I assure you.  The ladies here are always coming up with new and exciting ways to have more fun with you.  For instance, our penny auction.  All the enchantrix members had the opportunity to earn pennies and spend them for fabulous prizes provided by the lovely ladies of Enchantrix.  I even provided a few pairs of panties, some lipsticks, and a custom erotic audio.  If you won something of mine and haven’t emailed me about it yet, you’d better get to it because the first pair of my sweet panties goes out in the mail this weekend.  I love the idea that some of you will be holding a personal item that I touched.  I’m sure you do, also.

Custom Audios

I create a lot of custom audios and I get a lot of requests for new ones.  In fact, I’d say I get a request for a new audio at least 2 to 3 times a week.  For this particular auction I made a very interesting request in regard to the custom audio I was offering.  No Science Fiction fantasies, please.  I have to admit, I’ve never been a fan of science fiction.  I didn’t see the Star Wars movies, I never read all the Tolkein books, it just didn’t interest me.  I was too busy reading the Happy Hooker.  Now I know for some of you that may be a bit of a letdown.  I’m not a geeky mistress.  I’m terribly sorry to disappoint you.  Please don’t let that deter you from learning more about me and the things I do enjoy, I’m sure we have some things in common.  But, it won’t be science fiction, I assure you.  Now, the winner of the custom audio decided to play a little trick on me in regard to my distaste for science fiction and I have to say I am completely amused.  Science fiction….maybe I’ll have to go read 2001 or something, huh?  Yeah, that’s going to happen.