I had a great time at the pool party last night.  Gummy was first man in the door once again and this time he got to rub me down with warm oil until I couldn’t help myself and had to remove my bikini.  It was delicious.  We also had a new arrival, Tina the towel girl.  I had the chance to speak with Tina later and we had some delightful fun on the phone.  I hope she consents to being the towel girl next week.  Ms Sirena stopped by and commanded a boy of her own, it was so much fun to watch her take complete control of him.  Ms Steph was serving drinks in her bikini and after a minor mishap of landing in the margarita bowl (thanks to Tommieboy for saving her), she danced and served the drinks all night.  At one point she even “surfed” on the diving board.  It was an awesome pool party.  I’m looking forward to next week. 

After the party I took a break and then started taking some erotic fantasy calls.  I honestly love my job.  I got to have a two mistress call with Empress Mandy, which was so much fun.  We had a great time feminizing this guy and bending him over with our strap ons.  He was beside himself with ecstacy at the way we dressed him up and used him as our little cockslut.  Speaking of cocksluts, I’ve had quite a few closet cocksuckers call me lately.  We go from shy resistance to wild abandon and they soon realize that their absolute fantasy of sucking a cock and becoming a bisexual slut is not just a thought or dream, it’s a fully illustrated fantasy.  I love that.

As for the “get to know your mistress” part of my blog, I thought I would share something personal.  Someone asked me the other day if I ever really did this or if it’s just something I do on the phone.  Well, I did do this in real life at one time.  I lived in the city in my 20s and enjoyed quite a diverse lifestyle.  I was involved in a swinging relationship and later developed a taste for dominating men.  This led me to play parties and participating in the BDSM lifestyle.  I quickly realized that I love bringing pain into the party.  I adore making a man whimper.  So, CBT became one of my favorite forms of play.  I also fell in love with chastity and denial.  I enjoyed the five years I spent involved deeply in the BDSM lifestyle.

I soon made a decision that this lifestyle was something I truly loved, but I also loved living away from the city.  The city is a fun place to visit, but I’m a quiet person.  So, I moved away from the city and found that domming men on the phone was very satisfying.  I have never claimed do be an expert at anything, I am always learning.  I just know that I love talking to men on the phone, sharing their fantasies and getting to know them.  So, if we haven’t met yet, pick up the phone, I’d love to meet you.

You can follow me on twitter at www.twitter.com/MistressTia or on Facebook as Tia Domina

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I’ve decided to take part in Mistress Ann’s Sissy Pennies Auction. You can earn sissy pennies by leaving a comment on my blog, right here, or leaving a comment on the Mistress Interviews blog or the Talkshoe page. You can also earn pennies by attending a Mistress Interview. Next week, I’ll be interviewing Ms Vivian, so be sure to stop in and ask a few questions!

Now, for the office remodel saga. The office is in a holding pattern at the moment. That means my darling husband has run out of steam, lol. But, we purchased more drywall (really, more drywall!!??) and a few more walls will go up this week. After that, it’s time for me to get involved with some tape and mud, sanding, etc. Yes, I can do all that and I only hope I don’t break a nail. It’s a great upper body workout though, so I look forward to it. I will be out this weekend buying some much needed supplies. Much needed as in a television for the office, of course. An intelligent woman has to stay current with the world, you know. I also bought an aquarium last week because fish are relaxing and I love a relaxing atmosphere. The only things left are the elliptical (still shopping for that one) and a great chaise lounge. Both of which I am nowhere near ready to place in the office yet.

So, I’m off to bed and then shopping all day tomorrow. I’ll be back Sunday evening, look for me. I’ll be looking for YOU.

For an erotic phone session with Empress Tia, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card

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Sissy time is spring time, isn’t it? It’s like all the little flowers emerge and so do the pretty pink twinkies. Don’t you just love the spring pastel colors? Pink is the universal sissy color, afterall. But there are so many other pastel spring sissy colors. I really like the soft yellows and baby blues. So go out and grab a pair of panties in a color other than pink this week. Do something daring!

I will be interviewing Sir Mathew this week on The Mistress (Master this week anyway) interviews! I’m really looking forward to speaking with him. I’m sure all the ladies will turn out for this Provocatalk show. Speaking of shows, have you seen all the new shows going on? I’m really excited! Ms Delia and Ms Holly have a new show over on Talkshoe. The Weekly Hot Spot! You can subscribe via iTunes and be sure to check out Cock Radio for replay times. But, you never want to miss a LIVE show, especially when you get to talk to a phone sex mistress completely free! Which is why you should also check out In the Boudoir every other Sunday on Talkshoe. Ms Constance and Miss Vivian are doing a great show over there. Give them your support boys! Leave them comments to let them know what a great job they’re doing!

I’m sure some of you are wondering how the remodeling is going. Slow, damned slow. But, perfection has its price I suppose. We came to a bit of a standstill due to weather this past week but I did get to pick out some tile, etc. Also got my new fireplace. So, things are coming along.

See you soon!

My favorite call came from S who was listening to his wife get fucked by his extremely well hung best friend while he was on the phone with me, jacking off of course.  He was telling me all about her moans and screams of delight.  Apparently, his best friend had an anaconda cock and was at that very moment thrusting it into his wife with wild abandon.  This made S very hard, he knew he couldn’t satisfy her in that way.  But, listening to his wife be fulfilled by his best friend made him so horny he couldn’t stand it.  He didn’t mind that she was being a cock whore, nope, not one bit.  The humiliation he felt was part of the eroticism. 

Have you heard that the femdom ladies are having a St Patrick’s Day Party?  Yes, they are going to be entertaining you until you’re green with delight this Wednesday, the 17th of March.  So, put your green suspenders on and see if you can Get Lucky with a phone sex femdom.  Naturally, we will be on the radio, although not 24 hours this time.  Check the adult internet radio blog for more details.

Meanwhile, you’ll be seeing a lot of me the next few weeks.  Check the schedule daily as it changes quite frequently.

Speaking of which, I am getting an instant message about a call so I will sign off.  Later, babies.

For an erotic phone session with Empress Tia, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card

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It occurred to me that many of you, or some of you, have a weight problem. Most of you also have a wait problem when it comes to orgasms.   You can’t wait to masturbate, in fact you are addicted to masturbating.  So, to solve both issues I came up with a plan. Scientific studies have shown that your libido or need for sex is higher if you are actually physically hungry. Basically, as your need for food increases; so does your desire for sexual fulfillment. Isn’t it funny that you crave both at once? I suppose that would explain foodies, wouldn’t it? You know those guys that like to combine food and sex. Now, for me, that idea is just gross. I can’t stand the thought of having you lick chocolate sauce and ice cream off my beautiful ass. Ugh! This is especially true if you’re already a pudgy little fucker. I know I could tell you to get on the treadmill but honestly, would you do it? No, you probably wouldn’t.

So, here’s the plan. Every time you’re hungry, you should masturbate. Sounds easy enough, doesn’t it? Heading to the kitchen for a late night snack? Masturbate. Sitting down to watch the game with a few beers and some chili dogs? Masturbate at half time and skip the chili dogs. First thing in the morning instead of breakfast, masturbate. I know what you’re thinking. “But, Mistress, I’ll be hungry all the time”. No, you won’t. I came up with a solution for that. Some of you might call it a “catch”. But, I prefer to think of it as the perfect solution to your dieting woes. After all, I am a Mistress and I don’t really want you to cum that often, do I?

Here’s the plan. If you are hungry, go ahead and get whatever it is you crave. Masturbate first and cum on what you are about to eat. Want a bowl of ice cream? Cum on it first. Ice cream is better with toppings, don’t you think? Have a little extra protein on those wheaties each morning and skip that spoon of sugar. Don’t forget to add some to the Orange Juice! MMMMMM. Things go better with cum. Now, if you don’t like the taste of your own cum, obviously you aren’t going to eat much, are you? If you’re a fat fucktard that’s a good thing. But if you aren’t, a good solution for that is to avoid red meat and eat pineapple or drink pineapple juice. Cum tastes better when it’s sweeter.

Now, you might ask yourself..do I have to eat my own cum? Yes, you absolutely have to eat your own cum. This is a vital part of the Masturbation Addict’s Diet. So, get ready to chow down on some spermies, boys!

Let me know how much weight you lose on your new diet and I’ll be checking back in for the results later.

Bye for now babies!

Mistress Tia

Poor M is writing quite often, whining about his mistress imposed chastity.  Funny how boys like M ask for training and then whimper like a pup when they get what they ask for.  This boy needs some serious masturbation control.  He has had a bad stroking habit for far too long and I’m not going to tolerate it any longer.  So, poor M is being forced to wear a butt plug three times a week for a few hours each time along with the humiliation of wearing panties.  That should teach him who the boss is.

I even got to talk to a few of my cuckold boys.  Forcing them to watch while my new boyfriend and I have lusty sex is one of my favorite roleplay fantasies.  It’s even better if I can force the newly cuckolded man to taste his nemesis’ leavings.  All men are closet cumeaters, I’m convinced of this.

I hope you all had a Happy Halloween and Blessed Samhain.  Talk to you soon!

Are you a chronic masturbator or do you like to see how long you can masturbate without achieving an orgasm? Do you like to milk your prostate? Do you like to be forced to eat your own cum? Many of you have shown me some very interesting devices you use in your masturbation regimen. Masturbation could actually be considered a form of exercise for some of you, couldn’t it? A way to “clean the pipes”, so to speak.

But, there are those of you who are very adventurous.  The ones who tell me they want to leave it completely in my hands.  They want me to decide how they masturbate and whether or not they cum.  This is so much fun for me because I get to control the basic need you have to have an orgasm.  Guided masturbation is exactly that; me telling you how I want you to masturbate.  You follow my instructions on during the phone sex call and that includes stopping, starting and stopping as many times as I like.  I can make you go for hours, increasing your desire to orgasm a bit each time.  I might give you a release if you really feel it’s something you can’t do without.  But, for the most part, I love it when a client tells me it’s my decision.  This means you are in for a lot of hot steamy fun and a wild ride!  If you think you’d like to take that ride…you know the number!

Mistress Tia

So, I was thinking the other day about the differences between guided masturbation and actual orgasm control and how they can both be used during the same session but in most cases they are not. Some people might think they are one in the same but they are so very different. Guided masturbation takes place when you let me tell you exactly how I want you to masturbate. I can make you go faster or slower, use lube or not, I can make you stroke with just your fingertips or your whole hand. I have many different techniques I like to use on different men. They all lead up to an ultimate finish, or not.

Orgasm control is much like edging in the fact that we try to control your actual orgasm or keep it from happening in some cases. Now, if we keep your orgasm from happening at all, then we would refer to it as orgasm denial. If we keep edging and edging, getting you closer to orgasm and making you stop; that’s orgasm control. Sometimes I can take the orgasm control even further by teaching you how to make your orgasm last longer, or teaching you how to have multiple orgasms. Yes, I know your cock just stood at attention on that last line, didn’t it?

Well, I left a little tease for you last week on Tease Mafia so be sure to check it out. You know how much I love to tease you!

Talk to you later and happy stroking!

Tia

Naturally when the weather warms up the skirts get shorter and you boys get harder. Funny how that works, isn’t it? Those long sexy tan legs and short skirts drive you wild, don’t they? Not to mention the sexy painted toenails and sandals. I’m sure some of you are getting hard right now just thinking about a long sexy pair of silky tanned legs and pretty sandals with red painted toenails. I’ve talked to a few of you the past few days that have some very interesting foot fetishes as well as high heel and stocking fantasies. I can’t blame you, they are all so sexy.

I’m excited to be having another ice cream party with my favorite boy, NPPWB, this Monday night. Princess Molly and I are going to have a little webcam party with my wanker boy and he’s providing the ice cream toppings for his own ice cream. Any of you want to take a guess what that might be? I’ll leave you thinking about that one.

In the meantime if you haven’t noticed I’ve been around a lot more taking calls. I am halfway to my goal of guiding 150 masturbators for the month of May and it doesn’t look like I’ll reach it by midnight Sunday night unless you all start dialing real soon.

Later babies!

Ms Tia