First, we started off with food and margaritas, everything was going great.  The music was blaring, bikinis were being shown off, some splashing around, a bit tame really.  I was being the gracious hostess in my sarong and cute bikini top.  Naturally, I like to make sure everyone has a drink and everyone has had something to eat.  Of course the men love to flirt and the ladies love to tease.  My friends are a great crowd.  Invariably someone always forgets their swimsuit so I have a selection of mens and ladies swimwear in different sizes for “swim emergencies”.   That’s what started it.  A friend of ours who is cute and single and a bit of a shy guy, showed up without his suit.  So, I pulled out the trunks I had on hand and he chose one he thought would fit.  He’s not a large man at all, in fact, he’s a bit of a tiny guy.  So, finding a pair of trunks that weren’t too large on him was a task, but I was sure he would find something, and he did.  I have tell you this because it’s pertinent to what happened next.

After everyone had finished eating and the drinks were flowing quite steadily, we all decided to play a game of water vollyball.  Everyone was having fun, particularly the men who were avidly watching the breasts bobbing up and down, in and out of the water.  Things were going along great and everyone was having a great time.  That’s when it happened.  The friend of mine who needed to borrow the suit jumped up into the air to spike the volleyball and when he did, his trunks came off!  Well, naturally the ladies couldn’t resist taking advantage of him.  One of the ladies grabbed his trunks and tossed them to another lady.  We all had a great time playing a wonderful game of keep away with the naked man in the pool.  Soon, we all got out of the pool.  Except for the nude man, who was stuck in the pool, completely naked.  It was obvious he was getting cold so we had some fun tossing his trunks around awhile longer and then we made him a deal.  He had to get up on the diving board and dance for us, naked, of course!  He did as we instructed only because parts of him were shriveling and his lips were turning blue.  It was so much fun.  We enjoyed teasing the naked man while he did the Hippy Hippy Shake on the diving board while we laughed and cheered.  He got his trunks back but he didn’t stick around long after that.

Now, for the tequila foul.  Well, Iwas making those cheap margarita in a bag things and I got one going just fine before the party.  The second one was in the fridge for awhile, as I had to run to the store for more tequila.  I got back from the liquor store and was shaking the second bag when it broke open all over the kitchen.  My girlfriend and I were cleaning up the mess with towels and joking about sucking the tequila out of the towels.  Such a waste.  Next time I’ll make them in the pitcher.

I’ll be taking calls early in the day for the rest of this week.  My schedule will be 3PM to 8PM and 10PM to 3AM until Sunday, so if you’ve been wanting to have a sexy phone session with me, give me a call.

I had a great time at the pool party last night.  Gummy was first man in the door once again and this time he got to rub me down with warm oil until I couldn’t help myself and had to remove my bikini.  It was delicious.  We also had a new arrival, Tina the towel girl.  I had the chance to speak with Tina later and we had some delightful fun on the phone.  I hope she consents to being the towel girl next week.  Ms Sirena stopped by and commanded a boy of her own, it was so much fun to watch her take complete control of him.  Ms Steph was serving drinks in her bikini and after a minor mishap of landing in the margarita bowl (thanks to Tommieboy for saving her), she danced and served the drinks all night.  At one point she even “surfed” on the diving board.  It was an awesome pool party.  I’m looking forward to next week. 

After the party I took a break and then started taking some erotic fantasy calls.  I honestly love my job.  I got to have a two mistress call with Empress Mandy, which was so much fun.  We had a great time feminizing this guy and bending him over with our strap ons.  He was beside himself with ecstacy at the way we dressed him up and used him as our little cockslut.  Speaking of cocksluts, I’ve had quite a few closet cocksuckers call me lately.  We go from shy resistance to wild abandon and they soon realize that their absolute fantasy of sucking a cock and becoming a bisexual slut is not just a thought or dream, it’s a fully illustrated fantasy.  I love that.

As for the “get to know your mistress” part of my blog, I thought I would share something personal.  Someone asked me the other day if I ever really did this or if it’s just something I do on the phone.  Well, I did do this in real life at one time.  I lived in the city in my 20s and enjoyed quite a diverse lifestyle.  I was involved in a swinging relationship and later developed a taste for dominating men.  This led me to play parties and participating in the BDSM lifestyle.  I quickly realized that I love bringing pain into the party.  I adore making a man whimper.  So, CBT became one of my favorite forms of play.  I also fell in love with chastity and denial.  I enjoyed the five years I spent involved deeply in the BDSM lifestyle.

I soon made a decision that this lifestyle was something I truly loved, but I also loved living away from the city.  The city is a fun place to visit, but I’m a quiet person.  So, I moved away from the city and found that domming men on the phone was very satisfying.  I have never claimed do be an expert at anything, I am always learning.  I just know that I love talking to men on the phone, sharing their fantasies and getting to know them.  So, if we haven’t met yet, pick up the phone, I’d love to meet you.

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#1 – What are your favorite types of calls or fetishes? Well, I love them all and that’s the absolute truth but if I had to choose a favorite I would just put them in order so here’s my top four favorite types of calls: 1 – Guided masturbation. There is nothing as erotic as guiding a man and controlling his every move while he masturbates for me, the way I instruct him to. Watching him do this on webcam makes it even sexier. 2. CBT – Also known as Cock and Ball torture. I am quite a sadist at heart. I enjoy causing someone pain. I also enjoy finding creative ways to torture a man’s cock or his cock and balls and his ass and his nipples…you get the idea. Now, that doesn’t mean that I will cause you pain if that is not something you’re interested in. The joy of inflicting pain comes only when I’m lucky enough to inflict it on a willing submissive. 3. Teasing and Denial or Orgasm Control. Well, that is almost self explanatory really. I love to tease and I am a natural tease. Denying someone an orgasm is the ultimate exercise in control. I love making a man edge for me as many times as I can, only to deny him the pleasure of a complete orgasm. I also enjoy trying to make a man go for longer and longer periods of denial, training him slowly until he eventually has an orgasm only when I grant him permission. Lastly, number four is feminization which can, at times, include cuckolding and honestly those two are tied as my number four favorite fetish. Feminization is so erotic. Taking a man and transforming him into a feminine mirror image of his masculine self is beyond fun, in my opinion. Makeup is probably my favorite part and I enjoy teaching new sissies how to apply makeup properly. Then, of course, there are all the wonderful feminine clothing and lingerie we get to indulge in. Well, you can’t go wrong with a sissy fantasy, no matter how little or how extreme it is. Every part of the fantasy is fantastic. Cuckolding is also great because of the many elements that can be introduced. But, we can cover that in a later post.

Many of you know I took a few days off over the weekend to throw a summer party at my home. It was a huge success and I got to relax with some great friends. We drank and ate and swam and then watched the local fireworks show from my home. It was wonderful.

But, now I’m back all this week and looking forward to speaking with some of you again or even for the first time. Hopefully, we will get to speak sometime this week and discuss your favorite fetish or fantasy.

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I did have some awesome fun on my two days off. I attended a drag queen show and it was a fantastic blast. I had so many crazy ideas after seeing some of the lavish costumes. Sissies beware! I will dress you and have you mimicking Cher the next time you call. Or whomever I feel like having you dress as. These ladies were awesome. Some of you girls could all take a lesson from the gorgeous drag queens. I love the way they strut their stuff.

So, I’m off to bed because I have an early spa appointment in the morning. I’ll be here for your erotic phone sex calls tonight. Don’t forget, my pool party radio show premiers July 6th at 8PM and my last mistress interview for the summer is the 29th of June at 8PM. I’m interviewing Mistress Mandy, so be sure to check out this adult podcast.

See ya soon!

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Naturally before I leave I will be doing the Mistress Interview with Empress Jenna, so be there at 9PM Tonight on Talkshoe and ask the sexy enchantress anything you like.

Some of you have been given assignments to complete for while I am away. I suggest you complete them or meet the wrath of a seriously upset domina when I return. Kisses,

Ms Tia

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I want to give a shout out to those of you who have been begging me to take calls during the earlier hours of the day. You asked and I listened. I have decided to add a few early days into my schedule so click the schedule tab at the top of this blog to find out when I’ll be logging on early. Now you can have your masturbation mistress during the daytime hours a few days a week. Of course, for some of you, 3PM Eastern is still not early enough. Remember, I do take appointments.

See you tonight on the internet radio!

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But, as I was out shopping I was paying attention to the fashion trends for summer 2010 and thinking of all you panty boys and sissy girls. Yes, I was thinking of you. I love my feminization fantasy girls. You know I’m a self proclaimed perfume whore but clothes and shoes are my runners up. I noticed some great fashion trends for this summer that all you fashion conscious sissies might want to take a look at.

First, ruffles were everywhere, even on bikinis. Now, I know some of you have ruffled panties. That’s a great start. But, how about a ruffled skirt or dress; maybe even a blouse with ruffled front? Just think how sweet, sexy, and feminine you will feel dressed in ruffles somewhere other than your sissy ass.

The next thing I noticed was baring one shoulder with a blouse or dress. Well, it is summer and our shoulders are sexy and tan and glowing. So, why not show them off? All of you sissies out there, if you want to feel sexy in summertime, bare a shoulder or both. Use a self tanner or a lotion that adds a glow. For even better results, try a tanning bed. Be sure to check out the tanning salons and choose a safe tanning bed. There are also spray tans available and many tanning salons will offer spray on tans. Many people get a spray on tan before heading out on a tropical summer vacation. So, go ahead, make that appointment.

The last thing I noticed was gladiator type sandals. These are referred to as hooded sandals for the reason that they are open but they wrap up around the ankle. It’s a very funky bohemian look that I think is quite sexy. You can wear them flat or spike heels. Naturally, if you’re a true fashion diva, you’ll go for the stilettos. But, the choice is yours, girls.

Either way, I’m looking forward to summer and seeing more skin everywhere…want to show me yours?

Now, for you adult baby sissies, don’t feel left out. One of my favorite Sissy fags showed me this awesome site for adult baby sissies and their clothing needs. Look! You can wear ruffles too!

However you decide to show off your sissy self this summer, be you, be free and be a sissy! Naturally, I’m here to help if you need it. There’s nothing I love more than helping a sissy girl discover her femininity.

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At times I’m a voyeur. I enjoy picturing you in my mind while we speak on the phone. I close my eyes and think of you on the other end of the line. You might be in your bed, your hand around your cock, listening to my soft voice as I guide your masturbation through the twists and turns of my mind. I get the pleasure of listening to you breathe or moan while I tease your cock endlessly. Or, you might be dressed in lovely pink and satin from head to toe. You might be my lovely sissy baby, putting on your ruffled panties for me and modeling in front of your mirror. I picture you mincing around in your lovely frilly sissy clothes. I imagine I am right there with you, enjoying the creation of your feminine side and reveling in the freedom we both feel. Whichever it is, I’m delighted to be part of it. I’m thrilled that you ask me to glimpse into your private fantasies.

At times, I will admit I am an exhibitionist. I enjoy showing off my body to men that appreciate it. That’s when my controlling side seems to surface even more. I want to be the star of the show; the main attraction. I imagine men falling at my feet, kissing my toes softly. But, my favorite fantasy is to be watched while I do something very naughty and very private. Maybe I’m masturbating, or having sex. Either one is just as erotic. The point is I’m being watched. Someone is looking at me, making me the center of their erotic fantasy. That’s a great rush.

Think about which one you are when you are listening to last week’s edition of the Voyeur Window. I tell you, Mistress Jane and Ms Violet have a great adult podcast and I am enjoying the topics being covered. So, if you have a chance, be sure to take a look at Provocatalk, I’m sure you’ll enjoy it.

The office remodel is still under way and I’m seeing progress every day. At times, it seems like it’s taking way too long but I’ll be in there soon enough. I will most likely move in over the weekend of the 6th. I should have a party!

Speaking of parties, Cock Radio is turning three years old next month. There were those who said we’d never last. Well, fuck that, we’re still here and we’re still having a blast. Cock Radio is the only adult internet radio station dedicated to the enjoyment of phone sex and kinkiness. So, look for a birthday party next month. We will want your dedications, so email your favorite mistress and tell her what you want to hear and who you want to give a shout out to. It will be fun to hear from all of you!

Til next time,

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Last weekend was the first warm weekend we’ve had here in Oregon and it was wonderful. I got to take a trip further north and it was a gorgeous drive. We drove up to a little known hot springs area and did some skinny dipping in the natural hot springs. Of course, we like to wait until it’s very late at night and hike in so we can have a bit of privacy. It was stimulating in more ways than one, let me tell you. Especially since I am such a cock tease and well, let’s just say that makes the drive up even more enjoyable. Hey, I had to celebrate spring and masturbation month somehow, didn’t I? What better way than to masturbate someone while they are driving? This takes skill of course. You don’t want to do it in bumper to bumper traffic, but out on the open road or a back country road is very erotic. Of course, if you haven’t figured out by now that I have an exhibitionist side to me, then you haven’t been paying attention, have you? One of my first memories of nudity was taking off my tshirt in my boyfriend’s convertible while we were going down the freeway. Hey, he did it first. It was hot. So, sue me. I have to say that was the greatest five minutes. He pulled over and made me put it back on for legal reasons and of course common sense prevailed. But, in those five minutes I had such a rush of freedom. The wind caressing my half naked body was delicious. So, you can imagine how delighted I was at the hot springs.

In other news, the office has now been painted a beautiful coat of red. The track lighting was installed and I had a bit of a diva moment when I saw it because I didn’t like the way it was installed. So, they will be taking it down and redoing it. I haven’t bitched about anything at all til now, it was just something I knew I couldn’t live with. When I get the office up and running we’ll have a “phone sex with Tia in the hot tub” party because I can literally step out of my office and into the hot tub. Naturally, that will be nude hot tubbing. I did tell you I’m an exhibitionist, right?

Til next time,

Love and Kisses,

Ms Tia
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