I had a great time at the pool party last night.  Gummy was first man in the door once again and this time he got to rub me down with warm oil until I couldn’t help myself and had to remove my bikini.  It was delicious.  We also had a new arrival, Tina the towel girl.  I had the chance to speak with Tina later and we had some delightful fun on the phone.  I hope she consents to being the towel girl next week.  Ms Sirena stopped by and commanded a boy of her own, it was so much fun to watch her take complete control of him.  Ms Steph was serving drinks in her bikini and after a minor mishap of landing in the margarita bowl (thanks to Tommieboy for saving her), she danced and served the drinks all night.  At one point she even “surfed” on the diving board.  It was an awesome pool party.  I’m looking forward to next week. 

After the party I took a break and then started taking some erotic fantasy calls.  I honestly love my job.  I got to have a two mistress call with Empress Mandy, which was so much fun.  We had a great time feminizing this guy and bending him over with our strap ons.  He was beside himself with ecstacy at the way we dressed him up and used him as our little cockslut.  Speaking of cocksluts, I’ve had quite a few closet cocksuckers call me lately.  We go from shy resistance to wild abandon and they soon realize that their absolute fantasy of sucking a cock and becoming a bisexual slut is not just a thought or dream, it’s a fully illustrated fantasy.  I love that.

As for the “get to know your mistress” part of my blog, I thought I would share something personal.  Someone asked me the other day if I ever really did this or if it’s just something I do on the phone.  Well, I did do this in real life at one time.  I lived in the city in my 20s and enjoyed quite a diverse lifestyle.  I was involved in a swinging relationship and later developed a taste for dominating men.  This led me to play parties and participating in the BDSM lifestyle.  I quickly realized that I love bringing pain into the party.  I adore making a man whimper.  So, CBT became one of my favorite forms of play.  I also fell in love with chastity and denial.  I enjoyed the five years I spent involved deeply in the BDSM lifestyle.

I soon made a decision that this lifestyle was something I truly loved, but I also loved living away from the city.  The city is a fun place to visit, but I’m a quiet person.  So, I moved away from the city and found that domming men on the phone was very satisfying.  I have never claimed do be an expert at anything, I am always learning.  I just know that I love talking to men on the phone, sharing their fantasies and getting to know them.  So, if we haven’t met yet, pick up the phone, I’d love to meet you.

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#1 – What are your favorite types of calls or fetishes? Well, I love them all and that’s the absolute truth but if I had to choose a favorite I would just put them in order so here’s my top four favorite types of calls: 1 – Guided masturbation. There is nothing as erotic as guiding a man and controlling his every move while he masturbates for me, the way I instruct him to. Watching him do this on webcam makes it even sexier. 2. CBT – Also known as Cock and Ball torture. I am quite a sadist at heart. I enjoy causing someone pain. I also enjoy finding creative ways to torture a man’s cock or his cock and balls and his ass and his nipples…you get the idea. Now, that doesn’t mean that I will cause you pain if that is not something you’re interested in. The joy of inflicting pain comes only when I’m lucky enough to inflict it on a willing submissive. 3. Teasing and Denial or Orgasm Control. Well, that is almost self explanatory really. I love to tease and I am a natural tease. Denying someone an orgasm is the ultimate exercise in control. I love making a man edge for me as many times as I can, only to deny him the pleasure of a complete orgasm. I also enjoy trying to make a man go for longer and longer periods of denial, training him slowly until he eventually has an orgasm only when I grant him permission. Lastly, number four is feminization which can, at times, include cuckolding and honestly those two are tied as my number four favorite fetish. Feminization is so erotic. Taking a man and transforming him into a feminine mirror image of his masculine self is beyond fun, in my opinion. Makeup is probably my favorite part and I enjoy teaching new sissies how to apply makeup properly. Then, of course, there are all the wonderful feminine clothing and lingerie we get to indulge in. Well, you can’t go wrong with a sissy fantasy, no matter how little or how extreme it is. Every part of the fantasy is fantastic. Cuckolding is also great because of the many elements that can be introduced. But, we can cover that in a later post.

Many of you know I took a few days off over the weekend to throw a summer party at my home. It was a huge success and I got to relax with some great friends. We drank and ate and swam and then watched the local fireworks show from my home. It was wonderful.

But, now I’m back all this week and looking forward to speaking with some of you again or even for the first time. Hopefully, we will get to speak sometime this week and discuss your favorite fetish or fantasy.

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But, as I was out shopping I was paying attention to the fashion trends for summer 2010 and thinking of all you panty boys and sissy girls. Yes, I was thinking of you. I love my feminization fantasy girls. You know I’m a self proclaimed perfume whore but clothes and shoes are my runners up. I noticed some great fashion trends for this summer that all you fashion conscious sissies might want to take a look at.

First, ruffles were everywhere, even on bikinis. Now, I know some of you have ruffled panties. That’s a great start. But, how about a ruffled skirt or dress; maybe even a blouse with ruffled front? Just think how sweet, sexy, and feminine you will feel dressed in ruffles somewhere other than your sissy ass.

The next thing I noticed was baring one shoulder with a blouse or dress. Well, it is summer and our shoulders are sexy and tan and glowing. So, why not show them off? All of you sissies out there, if you want to feel sexy in summertime, bare a shoulder or both. Use a self tanner or a lotion that adds a glow. For even better results, try a tanning bed. Be sure to check out the tanning salons and choose a safe tanning bed. There are also spray tans available and many tanning salons will offer spray on tans. Many people get a spray on tan before heading out on a tropical summer vacation. So, go ahead, make that appointment.

The last thing I noticed was gladiator type sandals. These are referred to as hooded sandals for the reason that they are open but they wrap up around the ankle. It’s a very funky bohemian look that I think is quite sexy. You can wear them flat or spike heels. Naturally, if you’re a true fashion diva, you’ll go for the stilettos. But, the choice is yours, girls.

Either way, I’m looking forward to summer and seeing more skin everywhere…want to show me yours?

Now, for you adult baby sissies, don’t feel left out. One of my favorite Sissy fags showed me this awesome site for adult baby sissies and their clothing needs. Look! You can wear ruffles too!

However you decide to show off your sissy self this summer, be you, be free and be a sissy! Naturally, I’m here to help if you need it. There’s nothing I love more than helping a sissy girl discover her femininity.

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At times I’m a voyeur. I enjoy picturing you in my mind while we speak on the phone. I close my eyes and think of you on the other end of the line. You might be in your bed, your hand around your cock, listening to my soft voice as I guide your masturbation through the twists and turns of my mind. I get the pleasure of listening to you breathe or moan while I tease your cock endlessly. Or, you might be dressed in lovely pink and satin from head to toe. You might be my lovely sissy baby, putting on your ruffled panties for me and modeling in front of your mirror. I picture you mincing around in your lovely frilly sissy clothes. I imagine I am right there with you, enjoying the creation of your feminine side and reveling in the freedom we both feel. Whichever it is, I’m delighted to be part of it. I’m thrilled that you ask me to glimpse into your private fantasies.

At times, I will admit I am an exhibitionist. I enjoy showing off my body to men that appreciate it. That’s when my controlling side seems to surface even more. I want to be the star of the show; the main attraction. I imagine men falling at my feet, kissing my toes softly. But, my favorite fantasy is to be watched while I do something very naughty and very private. Maybe I’m masturbating, or having sex. Either one is just as erotic. The point is I’m being watched. Someone is looking at me, making me the center of their erotic fantasy. That’s a great rush.

Think about which one you are when you are listening to last week’s edition of the Voyeur Window. I tell you, Mistress Jane and Ms Violet have a great adult podcast and I am enjoying the topics being covered. So, if you have a chance, be sure to take a look at Provocatalk, I’m sure you’ll enjoy it.

The office remodel is still under way and I’m seeing progress every day. At times, it seems like it’s taking way too long but I’ll be in there soon enough. I will most likely move in over the weekend of the 6th. I should have a party!

Speaking of parties, Cock Radio is turning three years old next month. There were those who said we’d never last. Well, fuck that, we’re still here and we’re still having a blast. Cock Radio is the only adult internet radio station dedicated to the enjoyment of phone sex and kinkiness. So, look for a birthday party next month. We will want your dedications, so email your favorite mistress and tell her what you want to hear and who you want to give a shout out to. It will be fun to hear from all of you!

Til next time,

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I  spoke with B tonight who loves it when I dress him up like a sissy whore and then I take advantage of him.   I really love talking to him.  I have to say, feminization is a very erotic fantasy for me in so many ways.  It’s the intimacy of guiding a man into my world.  Taking you by the hand and teaching you all the things you need to know about being a woman.  I adore sitting on a man’s lap, facing him, gently putting on his makeup and eyeliner, then applying a beautiful dark red to his sexy mouth.  This is an act of intimacy more than a sex act in many ways.  Letting you get a peek over the fence into the realm of being a real woman is such a rush.  I love everything from picking out your panties and stockings to teaching you about the art of sucking my strap on.  I am gentle and kind, guiding you every step of the way.  If you haven’t explored your feminization fantasies with me yet, you should.

Lastly, I want to say thank you to all of those that wished me a happy birthday.  I got some lovely gifts.  Thanks to N for the great Amy Brown fairy, I love fairies of all kinds, and it was so sweet of you to think of me.  A special thank you for the sweet flowers that MB sent, they were so beautiful.  I was really touched.  You all made getting one year older not so bad.

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Some of you know I became a married woman this past year. Being married has afforded me more opportunities to experiment with chastity and sensory deprivation. It’s been a fantastic journey and I have been able to pass those experiences on to you, my sweet boys.

Lastly, and sadly, we lost a Mistress this past year. Mistress Tara passed away last month. We are all saddended by this but Mistress Tara was such a wonderful and uplifting spirit, always full of fun. She would never want us to be sad, we know that. Some of you in our adult chat room knew her as your spank mistress. She was always the one telling jokes and laughing with the boys, as well as the other mistresses. Mistress Tara was the creator of our beloved Sissy School beauty pageant. She loved her sissies and strived to make each one feel special and accepted. Her sweet spirit and infectious laugh are the things we want to remember most. We will be holding a tribute to Mistress Tara in the adult chat room this Saturday, January 2nd from 10-11PM Eastern. We will also be doing a rebroadcast of our Mistress Interview with Mistress Tara during that time on Cock Radio. Please join us if you can!

Happy New Year!
Ms Tia

If you are a sissy girl at heart, I have just the tonic.  Let’s put some holiday sparkle in your step.  Some new lip gloss, a great perfume or even a sparkly red dildo!  My feminization fantasy is a Holiday ball. I know you’ll knock those boys on their asses when you sashay in the room dressed in that sexy red ball gown and stiletto heels. Let’s parade around like we’re at the Christmas ball and make all the boys beg for more.  We’ll dance all night in our holiday gowns and leave them swooning at the door.

For you cuckolds, well, let’s just say the office holiday party will be interesting this year with me as your date.  It seems your boss is quite a hottie and he really takes an interest in me.  Since you and I haven’t had sex in quite awhile and since fucking your boss can only lead to a great promotion…well, you do the math.  I can’t help myself, he’s hung and I’m always wet.  Besides, baby…you want me to be happy, don’t you?

If you could have any kinky present under your tree what would it be?  Would it be a special fantasy or maybe a toy?  Would it be a sissy outfit, a new pair of panties or heels?  What sort of things would you find in my stocking?  Well, I created a little recording to let you all know what kinky toys Santa would bring a phone sex femdom.  Most of these items I own, some I want.  But, I thought this would be a fun sexy way to get some kinky holiday spirit.

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Poor M is writing quite often, whining about his mistress imposed chastity.  Funny how boys like M ask for training and then whimper like a pup when they get what they ask for.  This boy needs some serious masturbation control.  He has had a bad stroking habit for far too long and I’m not going to tolerate it any longer.  So, poor M is being forced to wear a butt plug three times a week for a few hours each time along with the humiliation of wearing panties.  That should teach him who the boss is.

I even got to talk to a few of my cuckold boys.  Forcing them to watch while my new boyfriend and I have lusty sex is one of my favorite roleplay fantasies.  It’s even better if I can force the newly cuckolded man to taste his nemesis’ leavings.  All men are closet cumeaters, I’m convinced of this.

I hope you all had a Happy Halloween and Blessed Samhain.  Talk to you soon!