I asked my chastity pet recently to write an essay about what chastity and being a chastity pet means to him, as well as why it is important to him.  I mainly did this because the poor dear has had not one but TWO accidents during his training and we’ve had to start all over from square one both times.  I’m sure he’ll begin to see the error of his ways soon or he’ll get writers cramp from all the essays.  Either way, I’ll get my point across because I ALWAYS do.  So, I asked him if I could share this essay with my readers and he agreed.  I thought it would be nice to share this with any future chastity slaves or those who might be considering being a chastity pet.  Enjoy.

An Essay from My Chastity Pet

Some of the reasons that my being in a position of chastity is important are that it prevents me from wasting time masturbating and thinking about other women, as i am immediately reminded that i am clearly owned and my concentration turns to You anytime that i begin to think of my (Your) cock.  It reminds me also that in order to even hope for release, i need to please you and obey you as you literally hold the key to any sexual pleasure i might have.  If i obey, which i always want to do, i have the hope of being rewarded.  But if i misbehave, i understand the confines that i am placed in, and it is also a reminder of the work i need to do to improve for You and the error that I need to correct and make amends to You for.   Chastity also strengthens my bond to you this way, because i know you are in care of my cock and you are simply protecting it for your own use, whether for pleasure or play.  The longer that i am locked up, the more sensitive my cock becomes to your touch and the more i crave your attention and mercy.  It is a small torture to wear the tube, but my orgasms will intensify and this greater feeling is directly linked to your control over me and the small pain is worth the great pleasure you will hopefully provide me once i better learn how to prevent edging too far. (My apologies again for that)  Being locked up prevents me from acting on urges that i might have if not locked up, or from doing what another Domme might encourage me to try if my cock was free and i was having a moment of weakness.  So i guess it promotes faithfulness to you in this way.   The chastity also acts as a training tool that makes me obey you too. For example, if i wanted to be defiant, i could skip my training and there would be no repercussions.  As it is though, i am willing to be much more open minded to your suggestions/commands and there is a clear goal that is noticeable and present.  I will volunteer to do practically anything for you.  I am a very willing sub to you, but this also makes me willing to experiment and is exciting for me to participate in doing daily too.  My wearing the cock tube is also a symbol of my submission to you and you are able to tell your friends and the other Empresses of LDW of Your little cock trophy that you keep locked away for when you wish to use it.  This also allows me to feel good that i am a benefit to you and that i am owned.  I want to be a good boy for you and with your training and guidance/control, i feel like i am truly yours.  I also know that being your sub is not defined simply by being in chastity to you, but is one method that you use to train me and may change whenever you feel it is necessary or more convenient for you.  For all of these reasons i am happily locked up and thankful to you for your patience, your generosity, and all that You do for me.  I am proud to be your pet.

Tiaspet

If you are interested in embarking on a chastity journey with me, give me a call.  You will learn much more than simply controlling your masturbation habits or learning not to stroke quite so often.

I went shopping yesterday.  Now, normally I wouldn’t even mention the fact that I went shopping but this was quite a mentionable experience, to say the least.  I was in one of my favorite department stores, in the lingerie department as a matter of fact.  You see, the anniversary of my first date with my husband is coming up and we have plans for dinner, etc.  So, I thought I’d pick up something slinky and new to surprise him.  Little did I know I was the one who would end up being surprised on this particular shopping trip.  I was standing next to a large table, going through the silky panties on display, looking for a particular color and cut when he caught my eye or actually I caught him in my peripheral vision.  He was wandering through the lingerie  and looking very conspicuous.  I tried not to look at him but I couldn’t help myself.  I could tell this man wanted so badly to be there but at the same time he was wishing he could disappear into the muzak and red carpeting.  Poor dear.  He quickly saw me and moved to the other end of the lingerie department, toward the sale racks.  I could tell he was not shopping for a wife or girlfriend.  No, he was looking for something for himself.  Then, as I started to take in more about him, I realized he wasn’t even wearing men’s clothing.  He was wearing women’s  jeans, a pair of women’s flat shoes, a plain white women’s blouse, tucked in of course.  I’m sure if anyone else would have glanced his way they wouldn’t have noticed the feminine clothing.  But, as you know, I have an eye for that sort of thing.  I discovered a panty sissy on a mission.  At the very least, I discovered a crossdresser.  My immediate thought was to walk straight up to him and ask him if he wanted any help with his shopping decisions.  But, I thought better of it and decided to give him some distance.  He was so intent on wanting to purchase something sexy and soft.  I didn’t want to keep him from making his purchase so I moved on to my other favorite department; shoes.

Later on I did see him walking through the mall with a shopping bag from that department store.  I really hope he got himself something soft and luxuriously sexy to wear.  Too bad we couldn’t have shared our secret with each other.  But, it was a nice surprise and I enjoyed it, knowing that I shared his secret even if he didn’t know it.

Wonderful Surprises

I thought I would take a moment to mention that I have had several very generous clients lately.  I adore presents, you all know that.  I never expect them but they are fun to have and when the FedEx or UPS man arrives it does excite me.  I never know what I’m going to see when I open that box.  But, it’s much more than the gift, really.  It’s the fact that you enjoyed our time on the phone sex line together enough to say thank you.  So, thank you to those of you who have tributed me in one way or another.  I do appreciate it deeply and look forward to speaking with you again.  For that special boy or two who sent some very personal toys…well…you know we’ll be having fun with those on the phone, won’t we?

I am, I confess, a cocksucker.  I love giving a great blow job and I pride myself on knowing all the little nuances and signals my lover gives out while I lovingly perform the art of fellatio.  I respond to his moans and movements perfectly.  I listen to his breathing and pay close attention to the areas of his cock and balls that make him pant with desire.  Being a great cocksucker takes practice and I have lots of it.  I sometimes prefer sucking a cock to sex, to be honest.  I know you’re thinking it’s not a very “mistress-like” quality.  But, it truly is.

Being a good cocksucker is a form of control.  I have complete control over whether or not he gets to cum.  I can slow down or speed up and tease him for a very long time.  I control the pace and degree of his pleasure.  I enjoy the fact that he is completely at my mercy.  My mouth is my instrument and I play it like a seasoned artist.  There is so much more to sucking a cock than getting down on your knees and slurping and groping.

With that said, if you long to learn the art of cocksucking we should talk.  I can teach you quite a bit about it and you can become a seasoned and sought after cocksucker.  I can coach your cocksucking dreams into a reality that you never thought possible.

Crossdressers Are Not Always Cocksuckers

Are you a crossdresser?  I adore crossdresssers.  I adore sissies also but crossdressing is quite different because it has some nuances that being a sissy does not and I’d like to point that out.  Most of the time a crossdresser enjoys the feeling of completely dressing up as a woman, from head to toe.  Most crossdressers love makeup and wigs as well as girdles, corsets, panties and stockings.  But, most crossdressers are not gay.  Now, I admit there are a few who will suck cock from time to time but only when dressed in full drag.  The rest of the time they are heterosexual men and they never think of being anything else or having sex with men as part of their dressing up fantasies.  A sissy, however, is a sissy in or out of panties.  Most of the crossdressers I encounter enjoy the thrill of being all made up to look and feel like a woman in every way.  Being passable is the ultimate fantasy and the rush a crossdresser gets from enveloping herself in womens clothing.  A crossdresser becomes my lesbian lover and enjoys it so much when I take her with my strap on.  Most crossdressers want nothing to do with other men unless they are also crossdressers or transgendered.  Now notice I say most.  There are always exceptions to the rules, as in anything.  But, for the most part this is the difference between the two.  Either way, I enjoy both and I have a lot of fun exploring all the different scenarios and fantasies that arise.  I must say, you girls get very creative.  I love that!  Remember, if you are a crossdresser that likes to suck transgendered cock, I’m happy to help you fulfill that fantasy also.

I love November.  I love watching the leaves change color here in Oregon.  The bright reds and russets and golds just amaze me.  Mother nature is a powerful woman, I’m sure of that.  In fact, she can be quite the femdom this time of year teasing us with her beauty and then throwing in the snow storm from hell to get our attention.  But, the best thing about this time of year is that I get to spend it cuddled up by a warm fire having erotic conversations with the boys I love most.  I sip my hot cider or hot buttered rum and purr in your ear as I hear you breathlessly moan for me.  Makes me all warm and tingly in my naughty parts just thinking about it.

Femdom Fantasies

I’m sure you’ve wondered what it might be like to be taken and owned by a beautiful woman, haven’t you?  To me, the best way for this to happen is a natural and slow progression, ending in complete devotion.  I like to get to know you on a personal level.  I like to know what sort of things really trip your trigger.  It’s a journey of discovery for both of us.  Sometimes, just letting me know a few simple things about you and your fantasies can set my mind racing.  Just as it is in your sex life with a physical partner, so it is with phone sex.  The more you learn about the person you are with and their body responses as well as their thoughts, the better the sex gets.  With phone sex, we have the meeting of two minds.  These two minds (yours and mine) share their thoughts and feelings and their darkest secret desires.  The end result is an explosion of epic proportions if done correctly.  Phone sex lets your imagination take over.  After all, your brain is your largest sex organ.  Over the next few weeks I will give you some examples of this, but for now…let your mind wander.

Kisses,

Tia

I’m sure you’ve probably read the latest information on the Enchantrix Empire, haven’t you?  We’re having a Halloween Party this Sunday, October 30th Live on Cock Radio.  The party starts at 6PM Eastern and I’m lucky enough to be kicking off the festivities.  There will be some contests and naturally some free phone sex minutes as prizes, either by text or by phone.  The Theme is the Rocky Horror Picture Show because after all, we all want to not just dream it, but be it, right?  I’m sure the sissies all enjoy this movie as much as I do but it has a lot of juicy kinky content for everyone.  If you’ve never been to a live showing of Rocky Horror, you must experience it at least once.  Virgins get to act out all sorts of wild fantasies before the fun begins and the kinky fun is the best part.  In fact, a few years ago I took some Rocky Horror virgins to the local showing.  It was so much fun watching two friends of mine lick whipped cream off of each other.  Of course, it was also great foreplay for the evening attractions after the show as well!  HAHAHA

My Halloween Fantasy and YOURS??

I’ve always loved a lot of things about Halloween.  As the comedian Jamie Kennedy observed a few nights ago, it’s the only time of year most women will proudly proclaim they are dressed either slutty or as a slut of some sort.  I suppose Halloween gives us permission to venture into the kinkier side of ourselves.  So, look for that woman in leather at your Halloween Party this weekend, I’m sure you’ll have a fantastic night.  If that’s not your style, maybe a seductive vampiress who takes control of you and drains you of more than just your blood, huh?  I have to admit I’ve been exploring that fantasy a bit lately.  In fact, I’ve put up a few free sexy audios to that effect and there will be one more posted before the weekend.  I’m sure you’re getting hard thinking about it, aren’t you?  Well, I must admit, it’s the “R” rated version of what I’d like to do.  For a more erotic and explicit version you’ll have to check the Enchantrix Audio Store.  I’ll keep you posted as to when I get it done.

For now,

Kisses, licks, and of course, BITES!

Ms Tia

Yes, I’m a cock tease.  No matter how you put it, that’s what it boils down to.  Do I love wearing short skirts and sexy stockings?  Hell yes.  Do I love wearing a low cut blouse or sweater and bending over to give you a peek at these lovely creamy mounds?  You bet I do.  In fact, I find myself intentionally looking for that bulge that I know will appear in your pants.  But, if you are one of my chastity boys you can only get so hard before that familiar pain creeps up on you.  The one that says your little plastic cage is about to impose its own torture, designed to keep you from getting any harder.  I love seeing that look on your face when that happens.  It makes me laugh out loud.  That’s why I’m a cock tease and a chastity mistress.

Dark Fantasies of Torture and Chastity

With Halloween fast approaching I’ve been thinking of how it would be if your chastity fantasy took a dark turn.  What if you were captured and imprisoned by a beautiful vampiress who fed on you and kept you locked in her dungeon?  What if you were also in chastity but she occasionally used you for her own sexual pleasures?  Well, with that thought in mind, I will be creating an erotic audio and placing it in the audio store this week.  I’m just having trouble with one thing; the title.  What should I call this sexual fantasy of dark torture?  Any ideas would be appreciated.

I’m off to get ready for a charity benefit dinner.  See you all later!

I’m sure most of you know I took a few days off last week to head north and enjoy some fun  with friends.  These particular friends live very far north on an island so our visit involved a ferry ride.  No, not a FAIRY ride, lol.  It’s been a long time since I’ve been on a ferry and I tend to get a bit seasick so I made sure to load up on dramamine before we boarded.  Little did I know that I would be much more relaxed than I had planned.  In fact, I was so relaxed, I decided to get a bit amorous on the night ferry ride, under a blanket.  Well, more than a bit.  It was a romantic feeling, wrapped in a blanket in the dark, seeing the city lights fade from view and the island in the distance.  It was a gorgeous summer night, skirting across the water in silence as we sat on the observation deck, under a blanket.  We quickly noticed we were the only ones on the observation deck that late at night.  Naturally, my cock teasing ways went into full throttle the more I relaxed and the warmer I got under that blanket.  Soon, I was kissing and caressing him, my hands wandering into his pants.  His breath was coming a bit faster as he got more excited and I could tell he was enjoying my fingers gently stroking his hard cock.  Thankfully, I wore a skirt for this particular trip so I climbed up on his lap and put that wonderful hard on to some good use.  It felt fantastic, watching the ferry boat travel across the water, feeling the vibration of the engine in our bodies and feeling him inside me.  I must say it was the most enjoyable ferry ride I’ve ever been on and something this femdom hasn’t done before.  I think I found a way to cure my seasickness, to say the least.

Phone Sex Fun

So, I’m now back home and very relaxed from my mini vacation.  I really enjoyed it and I feel completely rejuvenated.  I had some great fun with a few of my favorite sissies the last few days.  I have a particular little sissy fag that loves wearing diapers and I came up with the idea of filling her sissy diaper with chocolate pudding just for fun.  I mean, it’s hot out, so why not have some cool fun?  I think next week we’ll fill that diaper with some water and freeze it for a cold experience!  I also have some beautiful sissies that I’ve shared salon tips with and gone shopping with as well as taught them a few things about becoming a true sissy fag.  I talked to a very dear cuckold that has been my customer for a few years now and I love how the cuckold relationship has evolved for him.  One of the things I think I truly enjoy about talking on the phone sex lines is seeing people grow and hearing how their lives change as they develop that kinky side of themselves.  It always makes me smile.  Let’s smile together soon, shall we?

Tia

You might think I have plenty of ways to torment you what with the Tuesday night Pool Party adult radio show and the Enchantrix Empire and erotic audios and on and on and on but hey, I’m a diva.  I can never have enough ways to torment you.  So, I decided to put myself back on facebook, in addition to twitter.  I do like facebook as a social network but I love the Enchantrix Empire also.  So, you’ll still see me on both, of course.  If you have a facebook account and you want to follow this dominant diva just click the facebook tag to the left of this page.  It’s that simple.  Also, don’t forget to look for the enchantrix empire on facebook also and LIKE us.  No, not LICK…Like.  Although we don’t object to having certain parts of our lovely bodies licked.  We’ll discuss that later.

A Mistress Party at the Pool!

Wow, you missed a great party last Tuesday night, I have to tell you.  Ms Gemma was there and made ratatoulle and hummus for us.  Empress Alexandria came sauntering in with the top of her bikini missing!  Mistress Claire showed up in an excellent ensemble that had the boys drooling and begging for more.   Mistress Brianna showed up and she was buck naked!  I know I’m forgetting someone and I feel terrible but it was a full room and we had FIVE Mistresses, most of us naked by the end of the party!  Saint oiled our bodies to perfection, Gummy Bear took care of the “hands free” towel duty and later on became the bartender when Mindless drank a pitcher of margaritas and passed out (just kidding).  Seriously, it was a party that could not be beat.  In fact, I’m wondering how in the hell we are planning to top it.  We even had a conga line (imagine the comments there).  So, if you want to rock out this summer and the cool down by the pool, stop by Tuesday night at 8PM Eastern on Cock Radio for a 2 hour pool party which takes place live on the radio as well as in the community kink chat room.  Oh, and don’t forget that Mistress Alexandria’s new show starts this week at 10PM, following the Pool Party.  So stick around for some SMOOTH JIZZ, with Alexandria.  Come be one of the cool kids!

Other Shit, LOL

I’m volunteering my time this summer for some great causes and since I am spreading the love around the community I might not be spreading the love around here as much.  I doubt you’ll notice, to be honest.  But, check the schedule because sometimes I am needed at the last minute and it’s unavoidable.  Summertime is such a wonderful season, I just have to get out and enjoy life and people and especially great causes.  There are a few that are near and dear to my heart so I am thrilled to be able to give back some of my time.  Naturally, I still want very much to be part of your life and your development, no matter what that might mean for you.  So, if your schedule doesn’t seem to mesh with mine, send me an email and request an appointment.  I’m always happy to adjust my schedule for YOU.    Of course, I’m not going to lie, some of the time I’ll spend away will be purely selfish.  I mean, the pool is open and a girl has to have some naughty parties, right?  Either way, you are always on the top of my list, don’t forget that.  *Kisses*
Tia

It’s a wonderful sunny Sunday morning and as I write this I am remembering how you woke me this morning.  You were so soft, and tender, caressing my body with your fingertips until I began to stir from my sleep.  Playfully, I rolled over with my back against you, rubbing that ass you crave so much against your growing hard on.  I can’t help it, even in my half awake state I’m still a cocktease.  But, you love it, don’t you?  Your fingers softly touched my already hardening nipples and I let out a soft moan to let you know how much I was enjoying your touch.  You began to kiss my neck and whispered softly into my ear, “good morning, sweetheart”.  Is it any wonder that I adore Sunday mornings?  Your hands slid down my body, stopping and making slow wonderful circles of delight along the way, teasing me the way only you can.  You know I want you so you slide your fingers between my already parting thighs and you gently touch that sweet spot, making me moan and arch my back against you.  I can’t wait any longer.  I part my thighs completely and roll into you, pulling you to me with amazing speed and hunger.  As we join together I smile, knowing this is going to be the beginning of a gorgeous Sunday.  We make love passionately for quite awhile and the climax builds to an earth shattering crescendo, both of us reaching the peak together.  I kiss you gently and say, “Want to shower with me?”  You smile and bound out of bed behind me.

Pool Party Happenings

Last week’s Pool Party on Cock Radio was a lot of fun, although we didn’t have a lot of turnout.  Evil Penguin showed up to wear my bikini after I had removed it, of course.  I love lying naked by the pool, being oiled and massaged by the lucky lad who manages to be FIRST into the radio chat room.  Gummy Bear has been the lucky oil boy two weeks straight now.  Think you can beat him this week?  Try to be the first one in the radio chat room at 8PM sharp this Tuesday evening and you will win that spot.  Believe me, it’s the spot you want.  Drinks are served by our own wonderful Saint, (unless he’s on oil boy duty) and towel boys are always needed (no hands required).  If we’re really lucky a mistress or two will stop by and we can double or triple your fun.  See you at the Pool Party this Tuesday night, June 14th, 8PM Eastern!