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Pain Play in BDSM – The Difference Between Hurt and Harm

Pain Play in BDSM

Pain play in the BDSM world is not for all, but if you know anything about me or have taken the time to get to know me, you know that I am a mistress who enjoys inflicting some pain.  I admit, I am a bit of a sadist.  Now, for some of you there is immediate trepidation at the mention of pain.  All you can focus on is the pain itself.  The HURT, so to speak.  But, I am here to tell you there is a large difference between hurt and harm.  Yes, I will probably hurt you.  I will most likely make you cry out in pain and wish for me to stop.  But, I won’t harm you.

Hurt and Harm

To hurt you is to inflict pain of a magnitude that is not harmful to the body, in other words it won’t leave any lasting damage.  Pain on almost any level releases endorpins and in many people this also raises their arousal.  IF you are playing with a true sadist, like me, you must know that I am very aroused by your cries and whimpers as I take you on a pain journey.  So, as your endorphin levels and arousal rise, so do mine.  But, dear one, I would never harm you.   The bruises and redness will disappear and I will lovingly apply salve or balm as I tell you how proud I am of you for enduring such punishment.  But, I will never harm you, either physically or mentally.  Everyone has a pain threshold, I will respect your limits and we will play within them.   We will always play safe and I will always be loving.  I have respect for the fact that you have given your body to me as an instrument to use for my own personal sadistic enjoyments and I won’t squander that gift, it is very precious.

Many forms of Pain

There are many forms of pain as I stated before and not all of them are physical.  Sometimes the pain of wanting to have an orgasm and being denied that orgasm is just as effective as the pain of a flogger or a whip.  Other times, a nipple clamp or just a sharp pinch at the crucial moment of nearing the edge of orgasm is the only pain needed to get you compliant.  But, both are equally painful in their own way and neither one constitute harm.

So, the next time you think to yourself, “I’m not into pain”, think again.   You might be more open to the idea than you think.

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6 comments to Pain Play in BDSM – The Difference Between Hurt and Harm

  • Ms Tia- I am relatively new to being slightly sadistic, but I have certainly enjoyed exploring more during calls, especially when I get to view the caller on Skype! I always say I am one of the kinder, gentler Mistresses, more sensual, but the power of inflicting pain, repeatedly, surprisingly turns me on! I do love the pain we can inflict by denying or just delaying an orgasm, too. I think in a lot of ways, it’s the whimper we cause that really gets me going!

  • TeasedM

    Oh Sweet Mistress – I can just imagine a good sound spanking from You.
    Just hearing You say ‘good boy, I am proud of you for accepting your punishment’ would be joyful.
    A sore, red bottom would make me think of You even more than usual for days to come.

  • Tia

    Ms Stephanie, I completely understand what you are referring to. I prefer to think of myself as a sensual sadist. I love the “foreplay” of inflicting pain and those that are masochistic are so much fun to punish! I’m glad you are finding it fun. It’s great to explore a side of BDSM that you haven’t before. Even better when you find out you LIKE it!

  • Tia

    Awwww, my dear sweet TeasedM, you know very well that I would love nothing more than to warm your bottom to a blistering fever pitch. The idea of you having a sore red bottom for a day or two makes me very happy. Naturally that won’t be the only thing I’ll be doing to that ass of yours!

  • TeasedM

    I really enjoyed our first spanking session last night Mistress Tia.
    It really was exciting to surrender to You for punishment.
    You know I am a good boy and always behave so You need to punish me because You want to have fun.

  • tiny tim

    Hi Mistress Tia, I have always been a masochist. I love pain and especially CBT and ball busting. Pain for me can also be mental pain or getting humiliated.

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