BDSM With Household Tools
Since we had so much fun with the previous post, using kitchen tools for BDSM phone sex play, I thought I’d continue on through the rest of the house and see what kind of debauchery we could come up with. Since the B in BDSM stands for bondage, we will start with some ideas on how to create bondage with things you have around the house.
Bondage Around the House
Plastic wrap is excellent for binding wrists and ankles, just be sure not to wrap it too tight. Whenever playing any bondage scene, be sure to keep a pair of scissors near by in case you need to free someone in a hurry. Tie wraps also work well for bondage, but again, be sure not to get them too tight. I like to use tie wraps to anchor someone to a bedpost if need be. I can get very creative, making a chain of tie wraps to get the job done. Pretty and functional! Regular every day rope works if you don’t have the budget to buy the expensive japanese silk bondage ropes. Just make sure it’s not scratchy rope, unless you’re into that sort of thing. Let’s face it, some of us don’t feel comfortable walking into an adult toy store to purchase these things so finding things around the house to tie up our partners with is so much more creative and fun, right?
S is for Sadism
Yes, I am truly a sadist at heart. I love to be sadistic and come up with creative fun ways to inflict pain on my partner or submissive. There are so many things around the house that can inflict pain but I’m going to just cover a few of my favorites here. Rubber bands are lovely for wrapping around the balls or the penis (at the base) and they keep my sub from having an orgasm too quickly. Don’t get it too tight, just tight enough. If you don’t have rubber bands, hair elastics work just as well. For some added fun grab the elastic and stretch it out as far as you can then let go. SNAP! I love that sound and I adore the reaction on my sub’s face as well as the moan of pain during a phone sex session. Wooden rulers work well for slapping the balls, also.
These are just a few ideas on how to incorporate basic household items into your BDSM play. You don’t need an expensive dungeon or fancy toys like 50 Shades of Gray. All you need is your phone sex mistress and our imagination. Let the fun begin!
Wonderful Ms. Tia!!
For bondage – pantyhose, silk stockings or silk ties PLEASE!
Being bound for Mistress in comfortable fashion makes it easier to handle.
Ohhh yes, my pet. I love pantyhose and silk stockings for bondage play, as well as silk scarves! Soft frilly things can still bind you very well, pet.
We are a parsimonious pair, you and I Miss Tia. Sometimes a 60 cent cucumber gets the job done as well as the 60$ dildo. I would caution the use of silk for bondage, the fabric can tighten on it’s own self – and might have to be cut off. Dang shame if it’s a favorite scarf. 🙂
Wonder what kind of fun we’d find in your right-hand desk draw. hehe
Another awesome blog Ms Tia. I agree, there are so many things around the house for play and amusement for your Mistress. Each room has something to use in a safe manner. The kitchen is the best but let’s not leave out the rest of the house. All the way to the garage and the best of all is the tool chest. The HANDLE of a screwdriver can be so much fun for guys who do not have or want toys hanging around the house. Of course always use lube and caution when using something new to you. Ms Tia will definitely find something for you to amusing her during your calls.
As a matter of fact, in my right hand desk drawer I have some binder clips. Those can be very useful as nipple clamps or even used on the penis and testicles for the really adventurous types!
Thank you Ms Cooper! I have found so many wonderful items in the tool chest at our house, which is no wonder because we have THREE huge tool chests. Rubber handled screwdrivers are awesome and all sorts of things can be used as weights to be hung from the balls. Wickedly effective!
I see we have something more in common, other than our enjoyment of teasing and denying michael. That was such a fun session! *smile* It is a lot of fun to take a look at items in the home and consider how they could be used for erotic, or sadistic purposes. Sure, if a guy has toys that is great. But a sexy home scavenger hunt adds some excitement, prior to the session starting. I love this posting, Ms Tia!
What a great idea, Ms Violet! A scavenger hunt at home to see how many things you can find to use during a session with your mistress! I love that idea. Let the torture begin!