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Pain Play in BDSM – The Difference Between Hurt and Harm

Pain Play in BDSM

Pain play in the BDSM world is not for all, but if you know anything about me or have taken the time to get to know me, you know that I am a mistress who enjoys inflicting some pain.  I admit, I am a bit of a sadist.  Now, for some of you there is immediate trepidation at the mention of pain.  All you can focus on is the pain itself.  The HURT, so to speak.  But, I am here to tell you there is a large difference between hurt and harm.  Yes, I will probably hurt you.  I will most likely make you cry out in pain and wish for me to stop.  But, I won’t harm you.

Hurt and Harm

To hurt you is to inflict pain of a magnitude that is not harmful to the body, in other words it won’t leave any lasting damage.  Pain on almost any level releases endorpins and in many people this also raises their arousal.  IF you are playing with a true sadist, like me, you must know that I am very aroused by your cries and whimpers as I take you on a pain journey.  So, as your endorphin levels and arousal rise, so do mine.  But, dear one, I would never harm you.   The bruises and redness will disappear and I will lovingly apply salve or balm as I tell you how proud I am of you for enduring such punishment.  But, I will never harm you, either physically or mentally.  Everyone has a pain threshold, I will respect your limits and we will play within them.   We will always play safe and I will always be loving.  I have respect for the fact that you have given your body to me as an instrument to use for my own personal sadistic enjoyments and I won’t squander that gift, it is very precious.

Many forms of Pain

There are many forms of pain as I stated before and not all of them are physical.  Sometimes the pain of wanting to have an orgasm and being denied that orgasm is just as effective as the pain of a flogger or a whip.  Other times, a nipple clamp or just a sharp pinch at the crucial moment of nearing the edge of orgasm is the only pain needed to get you compliant.  But, both are equally painful in their own way and neither one constitute harm.

So, the next time you think to yourself, “I’m not into pain”, think again.   You might be more open to the idea than you think.

Kiss this sadistic ass

    Kiss this sadistic ass


Submissive Summer Fun!

Summer Submissive Fun!

I have to admit, it’s been a super busy summer playing with my submissive boys.  You all know that I love to take time off in the summer and that’s exactly what I’ve done.  So, when I’m here (at my computer) and available for your fantasy phone sex calls, I like . . . → Read More: Submissive Summer Fun!

Becoming My Submissive Chastity Slave, Part Two

Becoming My Submissive Chastity Pet

I know, I kept you waiting, didn’t I?  That’s how I control you, pet.  That’s how I tease you, that’s how I own you.  Notice that I added the word, “chastity” to being my submissive slave?  That’s because I prefer my boys to be in chastity.   The longing . . . → Read More: Becoming My Submissive Chastity Slave, Part Two

Becoming My Submissive

Introduction to Becoming a Submissive

I know you weren’t really excited about becoming my submissive bottom at first.  But, when you finally came to the painful realization that this was the only way to keep me happy and still be able to enjoy some sort of sexual activity, you finally gave in.  The slow . . . → Read More: Becoming My Submissive

Top 5 Reasons I Love Orgasm Denial

Orgasm Denial – Five reasons I love it

I have been interested in orgasm denial for many years.   About 15 years or so, to be exact.  There are so many reasons that it is a thrilling form of domination.  But, here is a list of my top 10 reasons.

 I am completely in control. . . . → Read More: Top 5 Reasons I Love Orgasm Denial

Doubling Down with Ms Rachel- A Two Mistress Phone Sex Fantasy

Empress Rachel

I’ve had the lovely pleasure of a two mistress phone sex fantasy with Ms. Rachel quite a few times.  I enjoy her intelligence and her ability to convey a story by literally painting a picture with her words.  She also has the talent of a novelist when it comes to her writing.  I . . . → Read More: Doubling Down with Ms Rachel- A Two Mistress Phone Sex Fantasy

12 Phone Sex Days until Christmas!

12 Phone Sex Days Until Christmas

I can’t believe it’s only 12 more days until Christmas!  Wow, time flies, doesn’t it?  Before you know it we will be in 2016.

I’ve been terribly busy lately and haven’t updated my blog quite as much as I should.  I apologize for that.  But, I had a . . . → Read More: 12 Phone Sex Days until Christmas!

Forget Black Friday, Stay Home and Have A Red HOT Rewind Weekend!

Forget Black Friday

You don’t need to go out in the cold, brave all those maniacal people trying to get the best bargain they can find.  No, you don’t need to shop Black Friday at all.  Just stay in and have a red hot rewind weekend with us!  We are so excited about our . . . → Read More: Forget Black Friday, Stay Home and Have A Red HOT Rewind Weekend!

Free Phone Sex – Yes, Really!

Free Calls all day today ONLY!!

I’m sure you’ve heard already but in case you haven’t, there will be free phone sex calls today!  That’s right, free 10 minute calls to anyone who wants one.  Or, if you prefer, we can give you the first 10 minutes of a longer call for free.  It’s . . . → Read More: Free Phone Sex – Yes, Really!

COcktoberfest is HERE!

What a way to kick off COCKtoberfest!  Check out this awesome special tonight only!