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Femdom Musings

Every once in awhile I suprise even myself when I get on the phone with someone and we have a connection.  But it seems the same questions come up quite often and I got to thinking that maybe it’s something I should openly discuss on my blog.  So, here goes…

Have I done any mistress type of work in real life?  Yes, I have.  It was many years ago, in my 20s in Seattle.  I worked for a few services that provided that type of thing.  I had some boys who only wanted me to kick them in the balls continuously.  Some just wanted to kiss my boots and beg to jack off.  But, something most people don’t understand is that in that type of relationship there is never sex and hardly ever any masturbation.  If there were, it would be considered illegal and I don’t live in Nevada.

Have I been to a glory hole?  Oh hells yes, many times.  I’ve made other boys suck cock or made boyfriends (who confessed that they wanted to) suck cock.  I’ve even done some nasty cocksucking myself at a glory hole or two.  Again, when I was younger.  I had to try everything.  I’ve had lesbian experiences and orgy experiences too.  But, as with delicious deserts, once you’ve tried it, you’ve tried it.  If it was great you might have it again but you’re certainly not going to make a daily habit of it.

Why don’t I do in person sessions?  Many reasons.  I’m a private person for the most part.  I live in a very rural area and contrary to popular opinion it would be hard to cultivate that type of relationship let alone find customers.  I am married and although he has never disuaded me from my passions, it would be hard to say, “Hey, honey, I’m turning the spare room into a dungeon”.  Explain that to his sister when she comes to visit.  Awkward.

So, I’ve answered a few questions and if you have more I’ll be happy to answer those also.  Til next time!

Tia

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Phone Sex LoveFest

I am getting so excited about the upcoming LoveFest, I can’t wait.  In the meantime, I’m practicing my own brand of love by talking to all of you naughty kinksters on the phone.  We are even sending you on a Love Hunt for pretty little hearts from us to you, so watch for them.  Collect them and win some free phone sex time with your favorite Empress.  After all, isn’t phonesex what it’s all about?  Don’t forget to hang out with us all day on the 13th of February in the adult chat room and LIVE on Cock Radio, our wonderful erotic internet radio station.  Hope to see you all there.

So, you’re probably wondering…when are you taking calls Ms Tia?  I’ll be taking calls this week, I promise.  They are in the midst of building a new house behind mine and I just can’t seem to take my eyes off those construction workers lately.  It’s better than watching the pool boy in so many ways.  These guys get up on the roof and since my house sits up on a hill, it’s such a great view.  All that muscle and sweat…mmmmm. So, needless to say I’ve been distracted.  Not to mention the fact that along with construction comes a ton of noise.  But, I’ll be here this week.  Watch for me.

In other news I have a boy who has been in chastity training for over 6 weeks and he’s doing so well.  I’m very proud of  him.  He’ll be getting a release very soon, since my birthday is coming up and I like to give all my chastity sluts a little something to celebrate.  Naturally I’ll be celebrating also.  It’s not every day you turn whatever it is, lol.  You didn’t really think I’d tell you, did you?

So, if you have a longing for a good cuckold fantasy or you want to be in chastity or even if you want me to perform nasty torture on your ass, we should talk this week, or any other week for that matter.  See you soon!

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Get Ready for LOVEfest

It’s a LoveFest from the Femdoms of LDW to you!  So join us for a giant group hug and lots of fun.  The Loving starts at midnight Saturday February 13th and continues until Valentine’s Day at midnight Sunday morning.  We’ll be hosting a live 24 hour radio of LOVE and we want your poems, dedications or devotions.  So, if you’d like to record a poem or dedication or you would like to request a song and dedicate it to your favorite mistress, please send it in by February 12th to cockradio@rocketmail.com and we’ll be sure to get it on the air for you!  Then, sit back and join us in the chat room while you listen to the LOVEFEST on Cock Radio!  Don’t forget, we’ll also have some wonderful games and ways that you can win some free phone sex LOVE minutes with your favorite kinky mistress.  Be sure to get familiar with all of our voices and read our blogs for some sensuous love games and great prizes.  So, come join the LOVEfest Saturday, February 13th starting at midnight Eastern.  We’d LOOOOVE to see you there.

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Guided Masturbation, Sissy Fags and Cuckold Pussy Boys

Wow, what a title, huh?  Well it’s been a busy week, what can I say?  I’ve been training this little sissy fag and she’s a hard headed little bitch.  She can’t seem to come up with an original thought of her own.  So, now sissy fag has a butt plug and once we get her ass (Pussy) stretched out good and proper, it will be off to the gay nightclubs.  After all, every girl needs a boy and this one needs it in the worst possible way.  You can just hear that whiny “come fuck me” tone in her voice whenever we talk about it.  Makes me want to make her pull a train at the very least.  This is a super slutty faggot sissy

Then, there were the cuckold pussy boys.  One in particular really intrigued me.  He told me of his ex girlfriend and how much he missed her.  But, the thing he missed the most was her talent for humiliating him.  In fact, she went so far as to invite her mother over for dinner and boss him around the entire night.  When her mother spoke up and said not to speak to him like that, this little princess smiled and said, “Tell mother what you are”.  To which he replied, “I’m her obedient pussy boy”.  I wish I could have seen the look on her mother’s face.  The times, they are a changin’ momma.  She was a brilliant cuckoldress, I must say.  She would not only have this man help her pick her next conquest, she made him listen to her rave on and on about his big cock and what a great fuck he was.  That’s not the end of it, but I will tell you more later.

Lastly, I’ve had some mind blowing guided masturbation sessions.  So much so that I decided to create an audio called Guided Masturbation 101.  I will be your instructress, Ms Tia.  Please be sure to bring your supplies to class, as indicated on the handout.  For those of you who will be doing the advanced strap on class, a butt plug will be required for Guided Masturbation 101.  I am always taking new students.  I love hearing men masturbate for me, or even better yet, seeing them on camera during our phone sex call.  What femdom doesn’t love being adored this way?  He can whimper and moan and I can control every stroke.  The best part is getting him to the edge of orgasm over and over again, if he’s man enough for it.  Some of these boys can’t take much more than once and they blow their load.  These are the ones who could benefit from my guided masturbation training.  Do you think you need to be trained?  If you think you do, you probably do.  Let’s talk about it.

Later boys!

Mistress Tia

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Femdom Fantasies and Phone Sex

Hi boys,

I’ve been trying so hard to adhere to some sort of schedule but it just isn’t working out for me.  So, here’s the plan.  I’m going to sign in and take calls any time day or night, no particular schedule.  If you want to make an appointment with me, please let me know.  I am taking appointments and I actually love doing so because this way you are guaranteed that my time is YOURS and yours alone.  Those of you that know me well, know that I am normally a night owl but I’m trying to change my vampire femdom ways and be available for the daywalkers as well.  So, if you see me in the mornings, it’s not a figment of your imagination at all.  Give me a call anytime you see me.

I’ve been getting a lot of phone sex calls lately from the cuckold boys.  Naturally, I find this so amusing because the thought of you standing there with your penis in your hand, telling me about your girlfriend or wife and how she just fucked your best friend or even worse, her ex boyfriend!…well, I find that delightful.  You should be thankful that she keeps your sorry ass around, loser.  The mere fact that she informed you of your lousy talents in bed and found someone else is fantastic in my opinion.  She should be commended for getting what she wants out of life.  A strong beautiful woman deserves a strong beautiful lover and if you’re not doing it for her, you deserve to be cuckolded.

I’ve also had the pleasure of meeting some new sissies and I must say I’m quite impressed with some of you.  You truly have the desire to learn more feminization skills.  If any of you are looking for makeup techniques for crossdressers I can highly recommend Youtube.  Just type in crossdress makeup.  You’ll be surprised what you find.  There is a wealth of great information.  Don’t be shy about it, embrace your feminine ways and go with the sissy girl you want to be.  Since I adore being a woman I completely identify with you.  I could never picture myself as a man and the very few times I have penis envy I just pull out my strap on, that seems to take care of it.  So, if you want to discuss perfume and panties or even a roleplay feminization fantasy, I say let’s do it!

Kisses!

Tia

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Sensual Sissy or Seductive Stroker?

Which one are you?  Are you the sweet sensual sissy dressed in her frilly finest and primping herself in front of a mirror?  Do you long for a sweet boy to come along and sweep you off your feet, turning you into his secret slutty girl?  Or do you want a Mistress to teach you all the secrets only true women know?  You might be a mix of either one of these or none of the above.  That’s the wonderful thing about feminization.  Even if it’s forced, it’s still so much fun!  Creating our scenarios and wardrobes while sharing some girly gossip on the phone sex line is some of the best entertainment I’ve ever had.  The fact that you all let me into your secret world makes it even more special.  I feel privileged to be asked to share in your fantasy.

Naturally, I also have a soft spot for the seductive slow stroker boy who just wants a femdom to guide his masturbation.  I love watching men masturbate.  Maybe it’s the control of their stroking habits, or maybe it’s the love of men in general.  I’m not sure which one it is, but it’s an erotic adventure and I am pleased to take that trip each night.

Tonight I got to talk with a sweet diaper sissy who is so cute and has the sweetest lisp when he speaks.  I suggested he check out some frilly plastic pants to go with those diapers.  Some mary janes and ankle socks would be so sweet, also.

Next, I got to speak with a gorgeous hunk who performed on cam for me.  Let’s just say the show was fantastic and I was a little warm when it came to an end.  He had the sexiest smile and I won’t go into too much detail about his other parts but mmmmmm, damn, he was hot.

Sorry I haven’t been around the past week,  but my sister came home from school and we decided to get our party on.  Imagine two sexy cockteases out at the bar, rubbing against the men and making them drool.  We left them all with a smile, you can be sure of that.  But, I’m back and she’s back to school so let’s talk dirty on the phone!

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A New Year and Tribute to a Mistress

Hello my babies and stroke toys! It’s time for 2009 to come to an end. I don’t know about you, but I like to reflect on things that have come to pass and look forward to new beginnings whenever a new year comes along. I have probably helped at least a few thousand of you with your masturbation habits in the past year. A few thousand more I have cuckolded or enjoyed some torture with. Naturally, I can’t name you all but there have been feminization fantasies, roleplay fantasies, forced bi fantasies and some good sensual vanilla fun to be had. It was a great year.

Some of you know I became a married woman this past year. Being married has afforded me more opportunities to experiment with chastity and sensory deprivation. It’s been a fantastic journey and I have been able to pass those experiences on to you, my sweet boys.

Lastly, and sadly, we lost a Mistress this past year. Mistress Tara passed away last month. We are all saddended by this but Mistress Tara was such a wonderful and uplifting spirit, always full of fun. She would never want us to be sad, we know that. Some of you in our adult chat room knew her as your spank mistress. She was always the one telling jokes and laughing with the boys, as well as the other mistresses. Mistress Tara was the creator of our beloved Sissy School beauty pageant. She loved her sissies and strived to make each one feel special and accepted. Her sweet spirit and infectious laugh are the things we want to remember most. We will be holding a tribute to Mistress Tara in the adult chat room this Saturday, January 2nd from 10-11PM Eastern. We will also be doing a rebroadcast of our Mistress Interview with Mistress Tara during that time on Cock Radio. Please join us if you can!

Happy New Year!
Ms Tia

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Have a Naugthy Phone Sex Holiday

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Masturbation Mistress Tia 800-601-6975I know what you’re thinking, “A phone sex holiday, is she kidding?”  Hell no.  I know you boys better than you think.  The holidays are a perfect time for phone sex.  You are probably wondering what makes me say that.  Well, phone sex is a great stress reliever.  All that shopping and cooking and trimming the tree takes a lot out of you.  You need some time for yourself.  So, when you get a few minutes alone, pick up the phone and call your mistress.  Give yourself to me for awhile.  Let me take over and relieve some of that holiday tension.  What you need is a nice long guided masturbation session.  We can massage all the tension out of your cock and rid you and your balls of any holiday blues. 

If you are a sissy girl at heart, I have just the tonic.  Let’s put some holiday sparkle in your step.  Some new lip gloss, a great perfume or even a sparkly red dildo!  My feminization fantasy is a Holiday ball. I know you’ll knock those boys on their asses when you sashay in the room dressed in that sexy red ball gown and stiletto heels. Let’s parade around like we’re at the Christmas ball and make all the boys beg for more.  We’ll dance all night in our holiday gowns and leave them swooning at the door.

For you cuckolds, well, let’s just say the office holiday party will be interesting this year with me as your date.  It seems your boss is quite a hottie and he really takes an interest in me.  Since you and I haven’t had sex in quite awhile and since fucking your boss can only lead to a great promotion…well, you do the math.  I can’t help myself, he’s hung and I’m always wet.  Besides, baby…you want me to be happy, don’t you?

If you could have any kinky present under your tree what would it be?  Would it be a special fantasy or maybe a toy?  Would it be a sissy outfit, a new pair of panties or heels?  What sort of things would you find in my stocking?  Well, I created a little recording to let you all know what kinky toys Santa would bring a phone sex femdom.  Most of these items I own, some I want.  But, I thought this would be a fun sexy way to get some kinky holiday spirit.

For an erotic phone session with Mistress Tia, call 800-600-6169
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
http://ratemycall.com

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The New Phone Sex Empire

You might wonder about the title here.  Well, there is a reason for it.  A lot of you have been my long time customers and whenever there is a change I try to let you know as quickly and efficiently as possible.  In that light, I wanted to make you aware of my new email address and my new yahoo messenger ID.  My new email address is empress.tia@gmail.com and you can reach me online at the.empresstia@yahoo.com on yahoo messenger.  Naturally, for the rest of this month I’m still signing into my old messenger for those that are used to contacting me there.  But, get ready for a new phone sex mistress, er, I mean, Empress!  After all, I am part of an empire.  The absolute definitive empire of phone sex.

In addition to that change, my phone number will soon be changing.  That’s right babies you won’t be able to dial my direct phone sex line any longer in the very near future.  But, don’t worry, you’ll still be able to get to me quickly and efficiently through one of our lovely dispatchers.  Just dial 800-601-6975 and the beautiful woman on the other end of the line will put you through to me.

The best part of all of this is my availability is also changing.  I will now be available much more often than the past few years.  Which means your guided masturbation sessions can happen more frequently.  You can whine and beg and plead for me more often.  I can deny your orgasms or listen to your orgasms more than I have in the past.

A few of you have come to me lately asking for specific training in one area or another.  Some have asked for masturbation training and some for feminization training.  I am more than happy to outline a training schedule for you, but be prepared.  Just as this takes some work on my part, it takes dedication on your part.  I expect you to be committed to your tasks and accountable to me, your Empress.  If you’d like to make an appointment for masturbation or feminization training (or any other kinky fetishes you like) just email or IM me.

So, 2010 is fast approaching and it’s time for new beginnings.  Do you have a list of new kinks you want to try or a new fetish you haven’t explored?  Let’s do it!  I love new adventures.

Til next time!

Ms Tia

For an erotic phone session with Ms Tia, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
http://ratemycall.com

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A Steamy Phone Sex Weekend

That’s what I’m asking Santa for this holiday season.  A Steamy Phone Sex weekend.  Now, don’t get me wrong, each weekend and most of the week as a matter of fact, has been pretty steamy lately.  I thought I’d hit the highlights of last week for you, so read on.

I talked to a slave boy that has a regular standing appointment to get spanked by a spanking mistress as part of his maintenance plan.  He doesn’t necessarily enjoy it, but he knows it needs to be done.  I particularly liked the way the mistress incorporated extra swats into the routine.  You see, she makes him hold a penny to the wall with his nose and each time he drops it he must bend down to pick it up before handing it back to his femdom of torture.  When he bends down to pick up the penny he gets a hard SWAT on his ass!  I had to giggle imagining this all taking place.  This particular little subbie boy is the same boy who made snow angels for me, naked in 15 below weather last year.  Of course his pee pee was almost nonexistent, but then it normally is.

I really enjoyed the caller with the science fiction based fantasy.  Not that it all sounded that far fetched to me.  In his fantasy world all men were slaves and inferior to the beautiful femdom women who ruled.  The superior specimens were kept for breeding purposes and the inferior submissives were used for sadistic humor.  Orgasms were punishable by death for the inferior pathetic loser slaves.  I was a high priestess, which is fitting, don’t you think?  Naturally, he was not a breeder, duh.  It was a roleplay fantasy I could really sink my teeth into, not to mention my boots when I crushed his balls like raisins.  I love ball busting!

Don’t forget if you’re looking for me on yahoo messenger my ID has changed to the.empresstia@yahoo.com and my email address is now empress.tia@gmail.com.  Be sure to make a note of it!

Well, that’s it for this week.  In fact, it’s time to turn that phone on and have some more kinky phone sex fun!

Mistress Tia

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